SargeMaximus
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I don’t get it
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Got laid twice this past week
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Different pvssy have different affect on the mans mind. Some helps you, others hurt you. Some bring out a different side of you, others eat into sides of you.
SargeMaximus
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sounds like pedestalizing pvssy if I’m honest.
mrgoodstuff
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Not at all
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
SargeMaximus
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How do you figure? You’re literally saying that certain pvssy helps you. Like some firefighter helping you out of a burning building, you’re not the alpha in that dynamic
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
Some pvssy energizes me, and other pvssy makes me feel a little more depressed or more negative. Who you hang around and talk to affects your mindset, and who you are inside or all up ontop of affects it more than that. Different pheremones strike you differently, different vibes from her affect you differently, it's different.
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I've had "streaks" like you mentioned. I think the confidence from a successful conquest makes you more direct confident and less hesitant. I recall a number of occasions while travelling to or from an LTR rendezvous, I had other women definitely interested.
Stopped at a grocery store on my way home from a weekend fling. Woman makes eye contact with me in line, we chat, walk out together, kisses me in the parking lot and gives me her number...
On a flight to go on a camping trip meet a woman as we are getting ready to board the flight. She comes up to ask if we can get together when we reach our destination. I had to break it to her that when we got there, I was meeting someone. She still insisted on giving me her number.
Running down off a mountain one morning I meet a woman I was friends with who was leaving the state to live with her "love of her life" later that week. She laid a lip lock on me as we were both standing there sweaty and breathing hard. Later that day another woman friend/client did the same thing. Man what a day!
As a friend says, never say WHOA in a horse race...Enjoy the streak and don't overthink it.
Stopped at a grocery store on my way home from a weekend fling. Woman makes eye contact with me in line, we chat, walk out together, kisses me in the parking lot and gives me her number...
On a flight to go on a camping trip meet a woman as we are getting ready to board the flight. She comes up to ask if we can get together when we reach our destination. I had to break it to her that when we got there, I was meeting someone. She still insisted on giving me her number.
Running down off a mountain one morning I meet a woman I was friends with who was leaving the state to live with her "love of her life" later that week. She laid a lip lock on me as we were both standing there sweaty and breathing hard. Later that day another woman friend/client did the same thing. Man what a day!
As a friend says, never say WHOA in a horse race...Enjoy the streak and don't overthink it.
SargeMaximus
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yeah but isnt an alpha supposed to be rock solid and unaffected by others?
2Rocky
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No man is an island....We are affected by people around us...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
mrgoodstuff
Master Don Juan
You might be alergic to dark liquor but have no issues with vodka.
SargeMaximus
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i see
KindredSpiritzz
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just enjoy it while it lasts, ebb and flow to everything in life and a dry spell will catch up with you eventually.
Just savor the moment and each success.
Just savor the moment and each success.