"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Got hit on again today.

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It's been happening a LOT this year. Out shopping, women interested, I could just sense she wanted me to talk to her (when you know you know) I ignored her. Carried on shopping.

Then another women interested. This one is more bold. She asked me something, and I politely answer her.

Can't remember what she asked but I replied "don't worry about it , I'm not in any rush".

For some reason, she finds this hilarious and gushes at it. Go figure.

I looked at her eyes, nice and blue. And imagined what they would look like if I were inside her (I'm kinda weird like this, I like to imagine having sex with women mid conversation).

I digress....

Then she eyes up what I have in my shipping basket. I have a dog bowl. Asking me about my dog.

Telling me about her cats,blah blah blah. In her 20's real pretty.

I'm actually seeing someone and I'm not the type to **** around behind anyone's back. So that's as far as it went.


It's happened lots lately. Recently I had a women over the top hitting on me. Like blantenly ovbioulsly ,"well hello there " "you're cute" "skin is so nice" e.t.c.


I don't get out much. I'm either lifting weights , out in nature with my dog alone , fishing alone , or training dogs at my dog club, or I'm out 1 to 1 with a women (girl I'm seeing).

So the only place I'm really around women alone is our shopping. That's where I keep on getting hit on.

Although it's happened a few times in my local park when out with my dog. Haha my boy (a big Germany shepherd) tends to bulldoze any women who get up in out space though.


Is it just me or are women getting more aggressive and thirsty when seeking out d ick?

Dunno what it is but something's changed. I've never had attention like this before. You guys experiencing the same thing?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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CaptFinnBad

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I’ve been noticing more attention too. No approaches yet but hovering and iois.

anyhow imho it’s the economic conditions. Women looking for providers

Quite possibly. Something has definitely challenged.

Mabye the current climate has made women realise single independent women is not best after all lol.
 

jaymbrs

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Quite possibly. Something has definitely challenged.

Mabye the current climate has made women realise single independent women is not best after all lol.
Wishful thinking. Not sure I'd even be alive when that time comes.

I haven't really been out looking for IOIs or anything. But I'll get out and see if anything's changed where I live.
 

Hamurabimbi

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What's the mask situation where you are?
All the sheeple are masked AF here.
I've found in 'masky' places, people seem distrustful and fearful. I walk around without a mask, I sometimes I get looks of sheer terror, like I'm going to instantly infect them.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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They sense you are taken, so they want you. They want what they cant have.

When Im in a LTR girls show interest. When Im single most wont give me the time of day.
 

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Is it just me or are women getting more aggressive and thirsty when seeking out d ick?

Dunno what it is but something's changed. I've never had attention like this before. You guys experiencing the same thing?
Not experiencing the same thing. I've been out less lately due to the Omicron variant. I wasn't seeing more buying signals in 2020-2021 either.
 
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