"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Got hit on again today.

CaptFinnBad

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It's been happening a LOT this year. Out shopping, women interested, I could just sense she wanted me to talk to her (when you know you know) I ignored her. Carried on shopping.

Then another women interested. This one is more bold. She asked me something, and I politely answer her.

Can't remember what she asked but I replied "don't worry about it , I'm not in any rush".

For some reason, she finds this hilarious and gushes at it. Go figure.

I looked at her eyes, nice and blue. And imagined what they would look like if I were inside her (I'm kinda weird like this, I like to imagine having sex with women mid conversation).

I digress....

Then she eyes up what I have in my shipping basket. I have a dog bowl. Asking me about my dog.

Telling me about her cats,blah blah blah. In her 20's real pretty.

I'm actually seeing someone and I'm not the type to **** around behind anyone's back. So that's as far as it went.


It's happened lots lately. Recently I had a women over the top hitting on me. Like blantenly ovbioulsly ,"well hello there " "you're cute" "skin is so nice" e.t.c.


I don't get out much. I'm either lifting weights , out in nature with my dog alone , fishing alone , or training dogs at my dog club, or I'm out 1 to 1 with a women (girl I'm seeing).

So the only place I'm really around women alone is our shopping. That's where I keep on getting hit on.

Although it's happened a few times in my local park when out with my dog. Haha my boy (a big Germany shepherd) tends to bulldoze any women who get up in out space though.


Is it just me or are women getting more aggressive and thirsty when seeking out d ick?

Dunno what it is but something's changed. I've never had attention like this before. You guys experiencing the same thing?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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CaptFinnBad

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I’ve been noticing more attention too. No approaches yet but hovering and iois.

anyhow imho it’s the economic conditions. Women looking for providers

Quite possibly. Something has definitely challenged.

Mabye the current climate has made women realise single independent women is not best after all lol.
 

jaymbrs

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Quite possibly. Something has definitely challenged.

Mabye the current climate has made women realise single independent women is not best after all lol.
Wishful thinking. Not sure I'd even be alive when that time comes.

I haven't really been out looking for IOIs or anything. But I'll get out and see if anything's changed where I live.
 

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What's the mask situation where you are?
All the sheeple are masked AF here.
I've found in 'masky' places, people seem distrustful and fearful. I walk around without a mask, I sometimes I get looks of sheer terror, like I'm going to instantly infect them.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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They sense you are taken, so they want you. They want what they cant have.

When Im in a LTR girls show interest. When Im single most wont give me the time of day.
 

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Is it just me or are women getting more aggressive and thirsty when seeking out d ick?

Dunno what it is but something's changed. I've never had attention like this before. You guys experiencing the same thing?
Not experiencing the same thing. I've been out less lately due to the Omicron variant. I wasn't seeing more buying signals in 2020-2021 either.
 
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