"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Got hit on again today.

CaptFinnBad

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It's been happening a LOT this year. Out shopping, women interested, I could just sense she wanted me to talk to her (when you know you know) I ignored her. Carried on shopping.

Then another women interested. This one is more bold. She asked me something, and I politely answer her.

Can't remember what she asked but I replied "don't worry about it , I'm not in any rush".

For some reason, she finds this hilarious and gushes at it. Go figure.

I looked at her eyes, nice and blue. And imagined what they would look like if I were inside her (I'm kinda weird like this, I like to imagine having sex with women mid conversation).

I digress....

Then she eyes up what I have in my shipping basket. I have a dog bowl. Asking me about my dog.

Telling me about her cats,blah blah blah. In her 20's real pretty.

I'm actually seeing someone and I'm not the type to **** around behind anyone's back. So that's as far as it went.


It's happened lots lately. Recently I had a women over the top hitting on me. Like blantenly ovbioulsly ,"well hello there " "you're cute" "skin is so nice" e.t.c.


I don't get out much. I'm either lifting weights , out in nature with my dog alone , fishing alone , or training dogs at my dog club, or I'm out 1 to 1 with a women (girl I'm seeing).

So the only place I'm really around women alone is our shopping. That's where I keep on getting hit on.

Although it's happened a few times in my local park when out with my dog. Haha my boy (a big Germany shepherd) tends to bulldoze any women who get up in out space though.


Is it just me or are women getting more aggressive and thirsty when seeking out d ick?

Dunno what it is but something's changed. I've never had attention like this before. You guys experiencing the same thing?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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CaptFinnBad

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I’ve been noticing more attention too. No approaches yet but hovering and iois.

anyhow imho it’s the economic conditions. Women looking for providers

Quite possibly. Something has definitely challenged.

Mabye the current climate has made women realise single independent women is not best after all lol.
 

jaymbrs

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Quite possibly. Something has definitely challenged.

Mabye the current climate has made women realise single independent women is not best after all lol.
Wishful thinking. Not sure I'd even be alive when that time comes.

I haven't really been out looking for IOIs or anything. But I'll get out and see if anything's changed where I live.
 

Hamurabimbi

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What's the mask situation where you are?
All the sheeple are masked AF here.
I've found in 'masky' places, people seem distrustful and fearful. I walk around without a mask, I sometimes I get looks of sheer terror, like I'm going to instantly infect them.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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They sense you are taken, so they want you. They want what they cant have.

When Im in a LTR girls show interest. When Im single most wont give me the time of day.
 

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Is it just me or are women getting more aggressive and thirsty when seeking out d ick?

Dunno what it is but something's changed. I've never had attention like this before. You guys experiencing the same thing?
Not experiencing the same thing. I've been out less lately due to the Omicron variant. I wasn't seeing more buying signals in 2020-2021 either.
 
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