"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Got hit on again today.

CaptFinnBad

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It's been happening a LOT this year. Out shopping, women interested, I could just sense she wanted me to talk to her (when you know you know) I ignored her. Carried on shopping.

Then another women interested. This one is more bold. She asked me something, and I politely answer her.

Can't remember what she asked but I replied "don't worry about it , I'm not in any rush".

For some reason, she finds this hilarious and gushes at it. Go figure.

I looked at her eyes, nice and blue. And imagined what they would look like if I were inside her (I'm kinda weird like this, I like to imagine having sex with women mid conversation).

I digress....

Then she eyes up what I have in my shipping basket. I have a dog bowl. Asking me about my dog.

Telling me about her cats,blah blah blah. In her 20's real pretty.

I'm actually seeing someone and I'm not the type to **** around behind anyone's back. So that's as far as it went.


It's happened lots lately. Recently I had a women over the top hitting on me. Like blantenly ovbioulsly ,"well hello there " "you're cute" "skin is so nice" e.t.c.


I don't get out much. I'm either lifting weights , out in nature with my dog alone , fishing alone , or training dogs at my dog club, or I'm out 1 to 1 with a women (girl I'm seeing).

So the only place I'm really around women alone is our shopping. That's where I keep on getting hit on.

Although it's happened a few times in my local park when out with my dog. Haha my boy (a big Germany shepherd) tends to bulldoze any women who get up in out space though.


Is it just me or are women getting more aggressive and thirsty when seeking out d ick?

Dunno what it is but something's changed. I've never had attention like this before. You guys experiencing the same thing?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CaptFinnBad

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I’ve been noticing more attention too. No approaches yet but hovering and iois.

anyhow imho it’s the economic conditions. Women looking for providers

Quite possibly. Something has definitely challenged.

Mabye the current climate has made women realise single independent women is not best after all lol.
 

jaymbrs

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Quite possibly. Something has definitely challenged.

Mabye the current climate has made women realise single independent women is not best after all lol.
Wishful thinking. Not sure I'd even be alive when that time comes.

I haven't really been out looking for IOIs or anything. But I'll get out and see if anything's changed where I live.
 

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What's the mask situation where you are?
All the sheeple are masked AF here.
I've found in 'masky' places, people seem distrustful and fearful. I walk around without a mask, I sometimes I get looks of sheer terror, like I'm going to instantly infect them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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They sense you are taken, so they want you. They want what they cant have.

When Im in a LTR girls show interest. When Im single most wont give me the time of day.
 

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Is it just me or are women getting more aggressive and thirsty when seeking out d ick?

Dunno what it is but something's changed. I've never had attention like this before. You guys experiencing the same thing?
Not experiencing the same thing. I've been out less lately due to the Omicron variant. I wasn't seeing more buying signals in 2020-2021 either.
 
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