Hey new to the site, as I still have my V plates and that needs to change!! I have no problem in actualy pulling girls in clubs... I dont lack the confidence for that (usually because im plastered) just got a girls number whos quite older than me (shes 22 im 19) her freind was saying i was too young but she didnt seem to mind! anyway i got her number were do i go from now? do i wait a few days? and what do i say! im not the greatest conversationalist! cheers. Also i dont have a car which is a pain in the butt, is this much of a problem?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Got her number... now what!
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Some guys call. I normally text.
I say "Hey it's Iceberg from Saturday. (Insert funny anecdote about the night) Let's do drinks this week. Like Thursday."
She says yes, no, or you never hear from her. I don't do all that texting back and forth, or smiley faces. Just "Hey it's me. Had fun. Let's hang out on (X Day)."
I say "Hey it's Iceberg from Saturday. (Insert funny anecdote about the night) Let's do drinks this week. Like Thursday."
She says yes, no, or you never hear from her. I don't do all that texting back and forth, or smiley faces. Just "Hey it's me. Had fun. Let's hang out on (X Day)."
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The two-day rule to call is common knowledge. I used to text, but after losing
some girls I made it a habit to call. I call and ask:
Me: Hey is dork there?
Her: What? lol
Me: Hah, what's up kiddo? This is Robyn (refer to something funny that
happened when you met her).
Her: Ohh...hi!
Me: What are you up to?
Her: hfjkahfalkjfhklsjfhaks, you?
Me: Cool, I'm mixing some tunes in my computer. Hey, (girl name) what are
you doing Friday night.
Her: Not much/ hanging out with adhjkahlfkd
Me: [If she isn't doing anything]: Listen, I'm going for a walk Friday night, tag
along and let's get some tea and hangout as friends. [If she's doing
something]: Hah, well call adshfjkadshlf and tell him/her you won't be able
to hangout because you're hanging out with me.
Her: Giggling...hah, ok. When and where?
And then just take it from there. I give you some props for getting a girl
older than you. You refer to her as a friend so that she starts asking herself
if you like her. If it all goes well the first night, the 2nd time you see her you
should invite her over to your place or bring a movie to hers and escalate
two steps forward and one step back.
some girls I made it a habit to call. I call and ask:
Me: Hey is dork there?
Her: What? lol
Me: Hah, what's up kiddo? This is Robyn (refer to something funny that
happened when you met her).
Her: Ohh...hi!
Me: What are you up to?
Her: hfjkahfalkjfhklsjfhaks, you?
Me: Cool, I'm mixing some tunes in my computer. Hey, (girl name) what are
you doing Friday night.
Her: Not much/ hanging out with adhjkahlfkd
Me: [If she isn't doing anything]: Listen, I'm going for a walk Friday night, tag
along and let's get some tea and hangout as friends. [If she's doing
something]: Hah, well call adshfjkadshlf and tell him/her you won't be able
to hangout because you're hanging out with me.
Her: Giggling...hah, ok. When and where?
And then just take it from there. I give you some props for getting a girl
older than you. You refer to her as a friend so that she starts asking herself
if you like her. If it all goes well the first night, the 2nd time you see her you
should invite her over to your place or bring a movie to hers and escalate
two steps forward and one step back.