Hey new to the site, as I still have my V plates and that needs to change!! I have no problem in actualy pulling girls in clubs... I dont lack the confidence for that (usually because im plastered) just got a girls number whos quite older than me (shes 22 im 19) her freind was saying i was too young but she didnt seem to mind! anyway i got her number were do i go from now? do i wait a few days? and what do i say! im not the greatest conversationalist! cheers. Also i dont have a car which is a pain in the butt, is this much of a problem?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Got her number... now what!
- Thread starter Matt182
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Some guys call. I normally text.
I say "Hey it's Iceberg from Saturday. (Insert funny anecdote about the night) Let's do drinks this week. Like Thursday."
She says yes, no, or you never hear from her. I don't do all that texting back and forth, or smiley faces. Just "Hey it's me. Had fun. Let's hang out on (X Day)."
I say "Hey it's Iceberg from Saturday. (Insert funny anecdote about the night) Let's do drinks this week. Like Thursday."
She says yes, no, or you never hear from her. I don't do all that texting back and forth, or smiley faces. Just "Hey it's me. Had fun. Let's hang out on (X Day)."
Masculinity
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The two-day rule to call is common knowledge. I used to text, but after losing
some girls I made it a habit to call. I call and ask:
Me: Hey is dork there?
Her: What? lol
Me: Hah, what's up kiddo? This is Robyn (refer to something funny that
happened when you met her).
Her: Ohh...hi!
Me: What are you up to?
Her: hfjkahfalkjfhklsjfhaks, you?
Me: Cool, I'm mixing some tunes in my computer. Hey, (girl name) what are
you doing Friday night.
Her: Not much/ hanging out with adhjkahlfkd
Me: [If she isn't doing anything]: Listen, I'm going for a walk Friday night, tag
along and let's get some tea and hangout as friends. [If she's doing
something]: Hah, well call adshfjkadshlf and tell him/her you won't be able
to hangout because you're hanging out with me.
Her: Giggling...hah, ok. When and where?
And then just take it from there. I give you some props for getting a girl
older than you. You refer to her as a friend so that she starts asking herself
if you like her. If it all goes well the first night, the 2nd time you see her you
should invite her over to your place or bring a movie to hers and escalate
two steps forward and one step back.
some girls I made it a habit to call. I call and ask:
Me: Hey is dork there?
Her: What? lol
Me: Hah, what's up kiddo? This is Robyn (refer to something funny that
happened when you met her).
Her: Ohh...hi!
Me: What are you up to?
Her: hfjkahfalkjfhklsjfhaks, you?
Me: Cool, I'm mixing some tunes in my computer. Hey, (girl name) what are
you doing Friday night.
Her: Not much/ hanging out with adhjkahlfkd
Me: [If she isn't doing anything]: Listen, I'm going for a walk Friday night, tag
along and let's get some tea and hangout as friends. [If she's doing
something]: Hah, well call adshfjkadshlf and tell him/her you won't be able
to hangout because you're hanging out with me.
Her: Giggling...hah, ok. When and where?
And then just take it from there. I give you some props for getting a girl
older than you. You refer to her as a friend so that she starts asking herself
if you like her. If it all goes well the first night, the 2nd time you see her you
should invite her over to your place or bring a movie to hers and escalate
two steps forward and one step back.