Chosen1 said:you guys really think she's that ugly man
Honestly. She's not very attractive. Sorry bro.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Chosen1 said:you guys really think she's that ugly man
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
n00bPimp said:Hey guys, lets not forget the op is human and has feelings. He probably still has feelings of caring and love left for her, so lets not insult her. Nobody likes to see someone they love be insulted, specially for something thats difficult to fix.
oh man i wanna see your face when you get home hahahaha2crudedudes said:Damn, Myspace is blocked here at work, but goddamn, give the guy a break! Anyway, if your ex is a hideous as everyone else is making her sound, then sounds like this is a second wind at life. Don't waste it man, most people don't get such opportunities. (Interestingly enough, your ex got one too by not dying in that accident)
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You have a new lease on life brother. Very lucky in that respect. Make the best of it. Wish you the very best.Chosen1 said:Yo thank you guys for real. I put in my status I wanna thank you guys,The thing is usually I go for girls that are smaller then me and prettier. Thanks for the kick in ass. I wasted almost 3 years of my life to a women who is the very defintion of ugly and I have nothing to show. thank you guys from the bottom of my heart and I damn sure will never get married again peace out
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.