"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Got chatting to an attractive smiling black women-missed a chance

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I saw this attractive well dressed black women, 1.5 inches smaller than me.

She walked past. Wasn't smiling then.

I walked towards her, positioned myself

I said in an enthusiastic way "hey, I just saw you and just had to come over and hello to you'"!

She smiled and said hey.

I then said in an animated way "wuu2".

She stopped to talk and said something.

After she finished.

I then said "would you like to meet up sometime".

She was still smiling and said something like "maybe another time" in a good way.

I'm 35 and she looked 21-25. Definitely 25 or under. I wasn't well dressed at all, had my hoody on.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stephen89 said:
I saw this attractive well dressed black women, 1.5 inches smaller than me.

She walked past. Wasn't smiling then.

I walked towards her, positioned myself

I said in an enthusiastic way "hey, I just saw you and just had to come over and hello to you'"!

She smiled and said hey.

I then said in an animated way "wuu2".

She stopped to talk and said something.

After she finished.

I then said "would you like to meet up sometime".

She was still smiling and said something like "maybe another time" in a good way.

I'm 35 and she looked 21-25. Definitely 25 or under. I wasn't well dressed at all, had my hoody on.
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Did you actually say: ‘wuu2’?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Stephen89 said:
I saw this attractive well dressed black women, 1.5 inches smaller than me.

She walked past. Wasn't smiling then.

I walked towards her, positioned myself

I said in an enthusiastic way "hey, I just saw you and just had to come over and hello to you'"!

She smiled and said hey.

I then said in an animated way "wuu2".

She stopped to talk and said something.

After she finished.

I then said "would you like to meet up sometime".

She was still smiling and said something like "maybe another time" in a good way.

I'm 35 and she looked 21-25. Definitely 25 or under. I wasn't well dressed at all, had my hoody on.
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You're 35, not 15. Stop acting like one of The Geeks https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Freaks_and_Geeks_characters , and you'll likely have more success, with both the ladies and in life
 
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I approached an attractive taller black women today, it was a weak approach and she walked off saying hi.

I wasn't in state.
 
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You didn't miss a chance, you took a shot. All good, keep it up.
 
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