"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Got chatting to an attractive smiling black women-missed a chance

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I saw this attractive well dressed black women, 1.5 inches smaller than me.

She walked past. Wasn't smiling then.

I walked towards her, positioned myself

I said in an enthusiastic way "hey, I just saw you and just had to come over and hello to you'"!

She smiled and said hey.

I then said in an animated way "wuu2".

She stopped to talk and said something.

After she finished.

I then said "would you like to meet up sometime".

She was still smiling and said something like "maybe another time" in a good way.

I'm 35 and she looked 21-25. Definitely 25 or under. I wasn't well dressed at all, had my hoody on.
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Stephen89 said:
I saw this attractive well dressed black women, 1.5 inches smaller than me.

She walked past. Wasn't smiling then.

I walked towards her, positioned myself

I said in an enthusiastic way "hey, I just saw you and just had to come over and hello to you'"!

She smiled and said hey.

I then said in an animated way "wuu2".

She stopped to talk and said something.

After she finished.

I then said "would you like to meet up sometime".

She was still smiling and said something like "maybe another time" in a good way.

I'm 35 and she looked 21-25. Definitely 25 or under. I wasn't well dressed at all, had my hoody on.
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Did you actually say: ‘wuu2’?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Stephen89 said:
I saw this attractive well dressed black women, 1.5 inches smaller than me.

She walked past. Wasn't smiling then.

I walked towards her, positioned myself

I said in an enthusiastic way "hey, I just saw you and just had to come over and hello to you'"!

She smiled and said hey.

I then said in an animated way "wuu2".

She stopped to talk and said something.

After she finished.

I then said "would you like to meet up sometime".

She was still smiling and said something like "maybe another time" in a good way.

I'm 35 and she looked 21-25. Definitely 25 or under. I wasn't well dressed at all, had my hoody on.
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You're 35, not 15. Stop acting like one of The Geeks https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Freaks_and_Geeks_characters , and you'll likely have more success, with both the ladies and in life
 
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I approached an attractive taller black women today, it was a weak approach and she walked off saying hi.

I wasn't in state.
 
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You didn't miss a chance, you took a shot. All good, keep it up.
 
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