"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Got chatting to an attractive smiling black women-missed a chance

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I saw this attractive well dressed black women, 1.5 inches smaller than me.

She walked past. Wasn't smiling then.

I walked towards her, positioned myself

I said in an enthusiastic way "hey, I just saw you and just had to come over and hello to you'"!

She smiled and said hey.

I then said in an animated way "wuu2".

She stopped to talk and said something.

After she finished.

I then said "would you like to meet up sometime".

She was still smiling and said something like "maybe another time" in a good way.

I'm 35 and she looked 21-25. Definitely 25 or under. I wasn't well dressed at all, had my hoody on.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Stephen89 said:
I saw this attractive well dressed black women, 1.5 inches smaller than me.

She walked past. Wasn't smiling then.

I walked towards her, positioned myself

I said in an enthusiastic way "hey, I just saw you and just had to come over and hello to you'"!

She smiled and said hey.

I then said in an animated way "wuu2".

She stopped to talk and said something.

After she finished.

I then said "would you like to meet up sometime".

She was still smiling and said something like "maybe another time" in a good way.

I'm 35 and she looked 21-25. Definitely 25 or under. I wasn't well dressed at all, had my hoody on.
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Did you actually say: ‘wuu2’?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Stephen89 said:
I saw this attractive well dressed black women, 1.5 inches smaller than me.

She walked past. Wasn't smiling then.

I walked towards her, positioned myself

I said in an enthusiastic way "hey, I just saw you and just had to come over and hello to you'"!

She smiled and said hey.

I then said in an animated way "wuu2".

She stopped to talk and said something.

After she finished.

I then said "would you like to meet up sometime".

She was still smiling and said something like "maybe another time" in a good way.

I'm 35 and she looked 21-25. Definitely 25 or under. I wasn't well dressed at all, had my hoody on.
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You're 35, not 15. Stop acting like one of The Geeks https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Freaks_and_Geeks_characters , and you'll likely have more success, with both the ladies and in life
 
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I approached an attractive taller black women today, it was a weak approach and she walked off saying hi.

I wasn't in state.
 
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You didn't miss a chance, you took a shot. All good, keep it up.
 
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