“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Got chatting to an attractive smiling black women-missed a chance

Stephen89

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I saw this attractive well dressed black women, 1.5 inches smaller than me.

She walked past. Wasn't smiling then.

I walked towards her, positioned myself

I said in an enthusiastic way "hey, I just saw you and just had to come over and hello to you'"!

She smiled and said hey.

I then said in an animated way "wuu2".

She stopped to talk and said something.

After she finished.

I then said "would you like to meet up sometime".

She was still smiling and said something like "maybe another time" in a good way.

I'm 35 and she looked 21-25. Definitely 25 or under. I wasn't well dressed at all, had my hoody on.
 
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I saw this attractive well dressed black women, 1.5 inches smaller than me.

She walked past. Wasn't smiling then.

I walked towards her, positioned myself

I said in an enthusiastic way "hey, I just saw you and just had to come over and hello to you'"!

She smiled and said hey.

I then said in an animated way "wuu2".

She stopped to talk and said something.

After she finished.

I then said "would you like to meet up sometime".

She was still smiling and said something like "maybe another time" in a good way.

I'm 35 and she looked 21-25. Definitely 25 or under. I wasn't well dressed at all, had my hoody on.
Did you actually say: ‘wuu2’?
 

BaronOfHair

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I saw this attractive well dressed black women, 1.5 inches smaller than me.

She walked past. Wasn't smiling then.

I walked towards her, positioned myself

I said in an enthusiastic way "hey, I just saw you and just had to come over and hello to you'"!

She smiled and said hey.

I then said in an animated way "wuu2".

She stopped to talk and said something.

After she finished.

I then said "would you like to meet up sometime".

She was still smiling and said something like "maybe another time" in a good way.

I'm 35 and she looked 21-25. Definitely 25 or under. I wasn't well dressed at all, had my hoody on.
You're 35, not 15. Stop acting like one of The Geeks https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Freaks_and_Geeks_characters , and you'll likely have more success, with both the ladies and in life
 

Stephen89

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I approached an attractive taller black women today, it was a weak approach and she walked off saying hi.

I wasn't in state.
 

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You didn't miss a chance, you took a shot. All good, keep it up.
 
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