"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Got chatting to an attractive smiling black women-missed a chance

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I saw this attractive well dressed black women, 1.5 inches smaller than me.

She walked past. Wasn't smiling then.

I walked towards her, positioned myself

I said in an enthusiastic way "hey, I just saw you and just had to come over and hello to you'"!

She smiled and said hey.

I then said in an animated way "wuu2".

She stopped to talk and said something.

After she finished.

I then said "would you like to meet up sometime".

She was still smiling and said something like "maybe another time" in a good way.

I'm 35 and she looked 21-25. Definitely 25 or under. I wasn't well dressed at all, had my hoody on.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Stephen89 said:
I saw this attractive well dressed black women, 1.5 inches smaller than me.

She walked past. Wasn't smiling then.

I walked towards her, positioned myself

I said in an enthusiastic way "hey, I just saw you and just had to come over and hello to you'"!

She smiled and said hey.

I then said in an animated way "wuu2".

She stopped to talk and said something.

After she finished.

I then said "would you like to meet up sometime".

She was still smiling and said something like "maybe another time" in a good way.

I'm 35 and she looked 21-25. Definitely 25 or under. I wasn't well dressed at all, had my hoody on.
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Did you actually say: ‘wuu2’?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Stephen89 said:
I saw this attractive well dressed black women, 1.5 inches smaller than me.

She walked past. Wasn't smiling then.

I walked towards her, positioned myself

I said in an enthusiastic way "hey, I just saw you and just had to come over and hello to you'"!

She smiled and said hey.

I then said in an animated way "wuu2".

She stopped to talk and said something.

After she finished.

I then said "would you like to meet up sometime".

She was still smiling and said something like "maybe another time" in a good way.

I'm 35 and she looked 21-25. Definitely 25 or under. I wasn't well dressed at all, had my hoody on.
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You're 35, not 15. Stop acting like one of The Geeks https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_Freaks_and_Geeks_characters , and you'll likely have more success, with both the ladies and in life
 
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I approached an attractive taller black women today, it was a weak approach and she walked off saying hi.

I wasn't in state.
 
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You didn't miss a chance, you took a shot. All good, keep it up.
 
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