"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Got a phone number at work!

S

Shake it-Break it

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 15, 2008
Messages
20
Reaction score
0
Location
Philadelphia, PA
Girls love to be made fun of!--- I was behind the counter at Borders checking a girl out and I was CF with her, making fun of her and making good eye contact--extra long with smiles. She left and came back to write her number and gave it to me before quickly and shyly leaving again. :cool:

So, I have her name and number. Since she gave it up to me without asking, what are some possibilities for me to follow this up with? She's cute and shy. I'm 20 and I assume she's a junior or senior in high school. She gave me her number Friday, so I'm thinking of calling her Monday night, trying to have some fun with her...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

J

Jokerlsk

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 20, 2008
Messages
646
Reaction score
5
Dude, your skirt chasing. I wouldn't hit a 16 or 17 yearold if your 20. She might have a big dad............. That happens to be part of the local law enforcement =D
 
D

drtk

Don Juan
Joined
May 11, 2008
Messages
126
Reaction score
4
Shake it-Break it said:
Girls love to be made fun of!--- I was behind the counter at Borders checking a girl out and I was CF with her, making fun of her and making good eye contact--extra long with smiles. She left and came back to write her number and gave it to me before quickly and shyly leaving again. :cool:

So, I have her name and number. Since she gave it up to me without asking, what are some possibilities for me to follow this up with? She's cute and shy. I'm 20 and I assume she's a junior or senior in high school. She gave me her number Friday, so I'm thinking of calling her Monday night, trying to have some fun with her...
Click to expand...
What are you doing here?
 
F

fresh_to_death

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 4, 2007
Messages
77
Reaction score
2
Dude, if she is at least seventeen then you better pump her at full force. That's how you follow up your little encounter. She doesn't want anything else.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

A

AKA FLEX

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 26, 2000
Messages
744
Reaction score
5
Shake it-Break it said:
Girls love to be made fun of!--- I was behind the counter at Borders checking a girl out and I was CF with her, making fun of her and making good eye contact--extra long with smiles. She left and came back to write her number and gave it to me before quickly and shyly leaving again. :cool:

So, I have her name and number. Since she gave it up to me without asking, what are some possibilities for me to follow this up with? She's cute and shy. I'm 20 and I assume she's a junior or senior in high school. She gave me her number Friday, so I'm thinking of calling her Monday night, trying to have some fun with her...
Click to expand...
First verify that you are abiding by your state's age-of-consent laws, then call her and ask her if she wants to go to Starbucks or to get ice cream or something casual at night. Then take her back to your place and have the fun you're hoping for.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top