"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Got a phone number at work!

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Shake it-Break it

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Girls love to be made fun of!--- I was behind the counter at Borders checking a girl out and I was CF with her, making fun of her and making good eye contact--extra long with smiles. She left and came back to write her number and gave it to me before quickly and shyly leaving again. :cool:

So, I have her name and number. Since she gave it up to me without asking, what are some possibilities for me to follow this up with? She's cute and shy. I'm 20 and I assume she's a junior or senior in high school. She gave me her number Friday, so I'm thinking of calling her Monday night, trying to have some fun with her...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dude, your skirt chasing. I wouldn't hit a 16 or 17 yearold if your 20. She might have a big dad............. That happens to be part of the local law enforcement =D
 
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Shake it-Break it said:
Girls love to be made fun of!--- I was behind the counter at Borders checking a girl out and I was CF with her, making fun of her and making good eye contact--extra long with smiles. She left and came back to write her number and gave it to me before quickly and shyly leaving again. :cool:

So, I have her name and number. Since she gave it up to me without asking, what are some possibilities for me to follow this up with? She's cute and shy. I'm 20 and I assume she's a junior or senior in high school. She gave me her number Friday, so I'm thinking of calling her Monday night, trying to have some fun with her...
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What are you doing here?
 
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Dude, if she is at least seventeen then you better pump her at full force. That's how you follow up your little encounter. She doesn't want anything else.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Shake it-Break it said:
Girls love to be made fun of!--- I was behind the counter at Borders checking a girl out and I was CF with her, making fun of her and making good eye contact--extra long with smiles. She left and came back to write her number and gave it to me before quickly and shyly leaving again. :cool:

So, I have her name and number. Since she gave it up to me without asking, what are some possibilities for me to follow this up with? She's cute and shy. I'm 20 and I assume she's a junior or senior in high school. She gave me her number Friday, so I'm thinking of calling her Monday night, trying to have some fun with her...
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First verify that you are abiding by your state's age-of-consent laws, then call her and ask her if she wants to go to Starbucks or to get ice cream or something casual at night. Then take her back to your place and have the fun you're hoping for.
 
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