"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Got a phone number at work!

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Shake it-Break it

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Girls love to be made fun of!--- I was behind the counter at Borders checking a girl out and I was CF with her, making fun of her and making good eye contact--extra long with smiles. She left and came back to write her number and gave it to me before quickly and shyly leaving again. :cool:

So, I have her name and number. Since she gave it up to me without asking, what are some possibilities for me to follow this up with? She's cute and shy. I'm 20 and I assume she's a junior or senior in high school. She gave me her number Friday, so I'm thinking of calling her Monday night, trying to have some fun with her...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dude, your skirt chasing. I wouldn't hit a 16 or 17 yearold if your 20. She might have a big dad............. That happens to be part of the local law enforcement =D
 
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Shake it-Break it said:
Girls love to be made fun of!--- I was behind the counter at Borders checking a girl out and I was CF with her, making fun of her and making good eye contact--extra long with smiles. She left and came back to write her number and gave it to me before quickly and shyly leaving again. :cool:

So, I have her name and number. Since she gave it up to me without asking, what are some possibilities for me to follow this up with? She's cute and shy. I'm 20 and I assume she's a junior or senior in high school. She gave me her number Friday, so I'm thinking of calling her Monday night, trying to have some fun with her...
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What are you doing here?
 
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Dude, if she is at least seventeen then you better pump her at full force. That's how you follow up your little encounter. She doesn't want anything else.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Shake it-Break it said:
Girls love to be made fun of!--- I was behind the counter at Borders checking a girl out and I was CF with her, making fun of her and making good eye contact--extra long with smiles. She left and came back to write her number and gave it to me before quickly and shyly leaving again. :cool:

So, I have her name and number. Since she gave it up to me without asking, what are some possibilities for me to follow this up with? She's cute and shy. I'm 20 and I assume she's a junior or senior in high school. She gave me her number Friday, so I'm thinking of calling her Monday night, trying to have some fun with her...
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First verify that you are abiding by your state's age-of-consent laws, then call her and ask her if she wants to go to Starbucks or to get ice cream or something casual at night. Then take her back to your place and have the fun you're hoping for.
 
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