"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Got a phone number at work!

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Girls love to be made fun of!--- I was behind the counter at Borders checking a girl out and I was CF with her, making fun of her and making good eye contact--extra long with smiles. She left and came back to write her number and gave it to me before quickly and shyly leaving again. :cool:

So, I have her name and number. Since she gave it up to me without asking, what are some possibilities for me to follow this up with? She's cute and shy. I'm 20 and I assume she's a junior or senior in high school. She gave me her number Friday, so I'm thinking of calling her Monday night, trying to have some fun with her...
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Jokerlsk

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Dude, your skirt chasing. I wouldn't hit a 16 or 17 yearold if your 20. She might have a big dad............. That happens to be part of the local law enforcement =D
 

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Shake it-Break it said:
Girls love to be made fun of!--- I was behind the counter at Borders checking a girl out and I was CF with her, making fun of her and making good eye contact--extra long with smiles. She left and came back to write her number and gave it to me before quickly and shyly leaving again. :cool:

So, I have her name and number. Since she gave it up to me without asking, what are some possibilities for me to follow this up with? She's cute and shy. I'm 20 and I assume she's a junior or senior in high school. She gave me her number Friday, so I'm thinking of calling her Monday night, trying to have some fun with her...
What are you doing here?
 

fresh_to_death

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Dude, if she is at least seventeen then you better pump her at full force. That's how you follow up your little encounter. She doesn't want anything else.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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AKA FLEX

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Shake it-Break it said:
Girls love to be made fun of!--- I was behind the counter at Borders checking a girl out and I was CF with her, making fun of her and making good eye contact--extra long with smiles. She left and came back to write her number and gave it to me before quickly and shyly leaving again. :cool:

So, I have her name and number. Since she gave it up to me without asking, what are some possibilities for me to follow this up with? She's cute and shy. I'm 20 and I assume she's a junior or senior in high school. She gave me her number Friday, so I'm thinking of calling her Monday night, trying to have some fun with her...
First verify that you are abiding by your state's age-of-consent laws, then call her and ask her if she wants to go to Starbucks or to get ice cream or something casual at night. Then take her back to your place and have the fun you're hoping for.
 
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