"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Good ways to get off the phone?

HeyPachuco!

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Was conversating with this gorgeous chick (Sister is a Top payed Pole Dancer) on the phone last night. Unfortunatly I stayed longer than I was supposed too. I tried the 25-30 minutes no more Rule but failed.

Due to her going on Webcam and the convo actually being INTERESTING. After building up some brilliant rapport w/ her, her sister came in the room and said "Get off the damn comp, I wanna go on" She said "No..I'm talking to my boyfriend.." - 1) What does this mean?

However me and this girl are just conversating at the moment, haven't even discussed dating eachother yet, she was just TRYING to put me in a comfort zone I think. She has loaads! of guys running after her and told me I was lucky to get her number..?

She has the strong-AFC guy sucking her ass left, right and center. It said/says on her Msn status "XYZ OWNS ME :)" ..When I asked her about this, she said Im just making him feel comfortable. Later before getting off the phone, she said me and XYZ aren't anything, you know.. I mean it (in a soft mellow romantic voice) before she had been highly hyperactive on the phone.

Anyway, as I tried to get off the phone, she kept bringing up subjects and saying why're you going..is that how desperate you're to get off the phone to me.

What are some good ways to get off the phone?

Don't tell me (Be the prize, yad yad yad and tell that b!tch Im going)... Just beneficial answers.


Cheers and thanks.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Allurre

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Next time, just detach yourself from actually 'belonging to her.'

Tell her your bed misses you, and that you'll be in touch with her later.

Don't let her run your schedule.
 

pjtheman

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HeyPachuco! said:
Anyway, as I tried to get off the phone, she kept bringing up subjects and saying why're you going..is that how desperate you're to get off the phone to me.

What are some good ways to get off the phone?

Don't tell me (Be the prize, yad yad yad and tell that b!tch Im going)... Just beneficial answers.


Cheers and thanks.
If you ask me you made a bit of a wuss move here by takin this **** from a girl, if she tries to do this in future just tell her you have more important things to do (work maybe, or perhaps you're going out with some friends)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Bonafide

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heres an idea...

"Know what, Ill call you back later"



works everytime...that is if u actually have a reason...if not then talk ***** talk
 

HeyPachuco!

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Lol,

Bonafide I've started using that one...she's coming to terms with it.

The only problem now.. is.. Other guys hogging the line. She can see my missed calls when I ring her, so if she doesn't want to ring, txt or get back to me after seeing this.

Then...

Its simply "NEXT", I said in a txt, "If you dont answer in 2.9 seconds then I'm dumping you".. she knows my humour can actually have some truth in it and this time it is.
 
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