"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good ways to get off the phone?

HeyPachuco!

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Was conversating with this gorgeous chick (Sister is a Top payed Pole Dancer) on the phone last night. Unfortunatly I stayed longer than I was supposed too. I tried the 25-30 minutes no more Rule but failed.

Due to her going on Webcam and the convo actually being INTERESTING. After building up some brilliant rapport w/ her, her sister came in the room and said "Get off the damn comp, I wanna go on" She said "No..I'm talking to my boyfriend.." - 1) What does this mean?

However me and this girl are just conversating at the moment, haven't even discussed dating eachother yet, she was just TRYING to put me in a comfort zone I think. She has loaads! of guys running after her and told me I was lucky to get her number..?

She has the strong-AFC guy sucking her ass left, right and center. It said/says on her Msn status "XYZ OWNS ME :)" ..When I asked her about this, she said Im just making him feel comfortable. Later before getting off the phone, she said me and XYZ aren't anything, you know.. I mean it (in a soft mellow romantic voice) before she had been highly hyperactive on the phone.

Anyway, as I tried to get off the phone, she kept bringing up subjects and saying why're you going..is that how desperate you're to get off the phone to me.

What are some good ways to get off the phone?

Don't tell me (Be the prize, yad yad yad and tell that b!tch Im going)... Just beneficial answers.


Cheers and thanks.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Allurre

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Next time, just detach yourself from actually 'belonging to her.'

Tell her your bed misses you, and that you'll be in touch with her later.

Don't let her run your schedule.
 

pjtheman

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HeyPachuco! said:
Anyway, as I tried to get off the phone, she kept bringing up subjects and saying why're you going..is that how desperate you're to get off the phone to me.

What are some good ways to get off the phone?

Don't tell me (Be the prize, yad yad yad and tell that b!tch Im going)... Just beneficial answers.


Cheers and thanks.
If you ask me you made a bit of a wuss move here by takin this **** from a girl, if she tries to do this in future just tell her you have more important things to do (work maybe, or perhaps you're going out with some friends)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Bonafide

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heres an idea...

"Know what, Ill call you back later"



works everytime...that is if u actually have a reason...if not then talk ***** talk
 

HeyPachuco!

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Lol,

Bonafide I've started using that one...she's coming to terms with it.

The only problem now.. is.. Other guys hogging the line. She can see my missed calls when I ring her, so if she doesn't want to ring, txt or get back to me after seeing this.

Then...

Its simply "NEXT", I said in a txt, "If you dont answer in 2.9 seconds then I'm dumping you".. she knows my humour can actually have some truth in it and this time it is.
 
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