"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Good ways to get off the phone?

HeyPachuco!

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Was conversating with this gorgeous chick (Sister is a Top payed Pole Dancer) on the phone last night. Unfortunatly I stayed longer than I was supposed too. I tried the 25-30 minutes no more Rule but failed.

Due to her going on Webcam and the convo actually being INTERESTING. After building up some brilliant rapport w/ her, her sister came in the room and said "Get off the damn comp, I wanna go on" She said "No..I'm talking to my boyfriend.." - 1) What does this mean?

However me and this girl are just conversating at the moment, haven't even discussed dating eachother yet, she was just TRYING to put me in a comfort zone I think. She has loaads! of guys running after her and told me I was lucky to get her number..?

She has the strong-AFC guy sucking her ass left, right and center. It said/says on her Msn status "XYZ OWNS ME :)" ..When I asked her about this, she said Im just making him feel comfortable. Later before getting off the phone, she said me and XYZ aren't anything, you know.. I mean it (in a soft mellow romantic voice) before she had been highly hyperactive on the phone.

Anyway, as I tried to get off the phone, she kept bringing up subjects and saying why're you going..is that how desperate you're to get off the phone to me.

What are some good ways to get off the phone?

Don't tell me (Be the prize, yad yad yad and tell that b!tch Im going)... Just beneficial answers.


Cheers and thanks.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Allurre

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Next time, just detach yourself from actually 'belonging to her.'

Tell her your bed misses you, and that you'll be in touch with her later.

Don't let her run your schedule.
 

pjtheman

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HeyPachuco! said:
Anyway, as I tried to get off the phone, she kept bringing up subjects and saying why're you going..is that how desperate you're to get off the phone to me.

What are some good ways to get off the phone?

Don't tell me (Be the prize, yad yad yad and tell that b!tch Im going)... Just beneficial answers.


Cheers and thanks.
If you ask me you made a bit of a wuss move here by takin this **** from a girl, if she tries to do this in future just tell her you have more important things to do (work maybe, or perhaps you're going out with some friends)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bonafide

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heres an idea...

"Know what, Ill call you back later"



works everytime...that is if u actually have a reason...if not then talk ***** talk
 

HeyPachuco!

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Lol,

Bonafide I've started using that one...she's coming to terms with it.

The only problem now.. is.. Other guys hogging the line. She can see my missed calls when I ring her, so if she doesn't want to ring, txt or get back to me after seeing this.

Then...

Its simply "NEXT", I said in a txt, "If you dont answer in 2.9 seconds then I'm dumping you".. she knows my humour can actually have some truth in it and this time it is.
 
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