"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Good ways to get off the phone?

HeyPachuco!

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Was conversating with this gorgeous chick (Sister is a Top payed Pole Dancer) on the phone last night. Unfortunatly I stayed longer than I was supposed too. I tried the 25-30 minutes no more Rule but failed.

Due to her going on Webcam and the convo actually being INTERESTING. After building up some brilliant rapport w/ her, her sister came in the room and said "Get off the damn comp, I wanna go on" She said "No..I'm talking to my boyfriend.." - 1) What does this mean?

However me and this girl are just conversating at the moment, haven't even discussed dating eachother yet, she was just TRYING to put me in a comfort zone I think. She has loaads! of guys running after her and told me I was lucky to get her number..?

She has the strong-AFC guy sucking her ass left, right and center. It said/says on her Msn status "XYZ OWNS ME :)" ..When I asked her about this, she said Im just making him feel comfortable. Later before getting off the phone, she said me and XYZ aren't anything, you know.. I mean it (in a soft mellow romantic voice) before she had been highly hyperactive on the phone.

Anyway, as I tried to get off the phone, she kept bringing up subjects and saying why're you going..is that how desperate you're to get off the phone to me.

What are some good ways to get off the phone?

Don't tell me (Be the prize, yad yad yad and tell that b!tch Im going)... Just beneficial answers.


Cheers and thanks.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Allurre

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Next time, just detach yourself from actually 'belonging to her.'

Tell her your bed misses you, and that you'll be in touch with her later.

Don't let her run your schedule.
 

pjtheman

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HeyPachuco! said:
Anyway, as I tried to get off the phone, she kept bringing up subjects and saying why're you going..is that how desperate you're to get off the phone to me.

What are some good ways to get off the phone?

Don't tell me (Be the prize, yad yad yad and tell that b!tch Im going)... Just beneficial answers.


Cheers and thanks.
If you ask me you made a bit of a wuss move here by takin this **** from a girl, if she tries to do this in future just tell her you have more important things to do (work maybe, or perhaps you're going out with some friends)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Bonafide

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heres an idea...

"Know what, Ill call you back later"



works everytime...that is if u actually have a reason...if not then talk ***** talk
 

HeyPachuco!

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Lol,

Bonafide I've started using that one...she's coming to terms with it.

The only problem now.. is.. Other guys hogging the line. She can see my missed calls when I ring her, so if she doesn't want to ring, txt or get back to me after seeing this.

Then...

Its simply "NEXT", I said in a txt, "If you dont answer in 2.9 seconds then I'm dumping you".. she knows my humour can actually have some truth in it and this time it is.
 
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