MountainSlide
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Where's are some good spots to take a woman on a second date, other than bar?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Good spot for a second date?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
MountainSlide
Master Don Juan
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Went with the art gallery, worked like a charm.
You don't have to plan much, just do something active or that is different. I have taken second dates to roller derby, galleries with weird ass exhibitions (weirder the better), botanical gardens, farmer's markets. My old standby is a walkabout with people-watching and window shopping and then a drink and shared appetizer at a trendy, expensive restaurant. They will let you sit at the bar, which is where you want to be anyway, without reservations, and if you are good with bartenders, you will be "sampling" wine for free. Get to know bartenders at trendy restaurants, they will get you laid guaranteed, well worth the tips you should pay them. Spend 20% on the women you are dating, 80% on tips for bartenders and restaurant staff. There's nothing better than having the staff at the hot restaurant know you by name... even if you hardly ever eat a full meal there.