MountainSlide
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Where's are some good spots to take a woman on a second date, other than bar?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Good spot for a second date?
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
MountainSlide
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Went with the art gallery, worked like a charm.
You don't have to plan much, just do something active or that is different. I have taken second dates to roller derby, galleries with weird ass exhibitions (weirder the better), botanical gardens, farmer's markets. My old standby is a walkabout with people-watching and window shopping and then a drink and shared appetizer at a trendy, expensive restaurant. They will let you sit at the bar, which is where you want to be anyway, without reservations, and if you are good with bartenders, you will be "sampling" wine for free. Get to know bartenders at trendy restaurants, they will get you laid guaranteed, well worth the tips you should pay them. Spend 20% on the women you are dating, 80% on tips for bartenders and restaurant staff. There's nothing better than having the staff at the hot restaurant know you by name... even if you hardly ever eat a full meal there.