"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Bonhomme

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Well, you set yourself by saying "It takes a lot to impress me" straight away. She just called your bluff. Good on her. Where could I find such a gal?

Best thing to do is make it a complete joke and keep upping the ante, or just refer to her as "Miss harder-to-impress-than-thou," with a mock upper-class accent.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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that is true. well heres something i assume everyone might have heard at least once in their lifetime when she says 'i don't give my number out'

what would be a good response to that? (bearing in mind its an online msg rather than in person)
 

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Act on the possibility it's a sh1t test, and say "Yeah, right, just call me at _______ now." Sometimes she'll counter with an email address, which you can run with if you want, but don't expect anything to come of it. Just that there's a slight chance she's in a relationship and looking to jump ship without being found out (gals often do that).
 
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