"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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good response online

Bonhomme

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Well, you set yourself by saying "It takes a lot to impress me" straight away. She just called your bluff. Good on her. Where could I find such a gal?

Best thing to do is make it a complete joke and keep upping the ante, or just refer to her as "Miss harder-to-impress-than-thou," with a mock upper-class accent.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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that is true. well heres something i assume everyone might have heard at least once in their lifetime when she says 'i don't give my number out'

what would be a good response to that? (bearing in mind its an online msg rather than in person)
 

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Act on the possibility it's a sh1t test, and say "Yeah, right, just call me at _______ now." Sometimes she'll counter with an email address, which you can run with if you want, but don't expect anything to come of it. Just that there's a slight chance she's in a relationship and looking to jump ship without being found out (gals often do that).
 
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