"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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good response online

Bonhomme

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Well, you set yourself by saying "It takes a lot to impress me" straight away. She just called your bluff. Good on her. Where could I find such a gal?

Best thing to do is make it a complete joke and keep upping the ante, or just refer to her as "Miss harder-to-impress-than-thou," with a mock upper-class accent.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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pete101

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that is true. well heres something i assume everyone might have heard at least once in their lifetime when she says 'i don't give my number out'

what would be a good response to that? (bearing in mind its an online msg rather than in person)
 

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Act on the possibility it's a sh1t test, and say "Yeah, right, just call me at _______ now." Sometimes she'll counter with an email address, which you can run with if you want, but don't expect anything to come of it. Just that there's a slight chance she's in a relationship and looking to jump ship without being found out (gals often do that).
 
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