"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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Well, you set yourself by saying "It takes a lot to impress me" straight away. She just called your bluff. Good on her. Where could I find such a gal?

Best thing to do is make it a complete joke and keep upping the ante, or just refer to her as "Miss harder-to-impress-than-thou," with a mock upper-class accent.
 

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that is true. well heres something i assume everyone might have heard at least once in their lifetime when she says 'i don't give my number out'

what would be a good response to that? (bearing in mind its an online msg rather than in person)
 
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Act on the possibility it's a sh1t test, and say "Yeah, right, just call me at _______ now." Sometimes she'll counter with an email address, which you can run with if you want, but don't expect anything to come of it. Just that there's a slight chance she's in a relationship and looking to jump ship without being found out (gals often do that).
 
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