"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Long story short... was seeing a few different girls, one really stood out and we had a good connection, she's fit, makes her own money, and is witty. I ended up choosing the younger big boobed one and dated her for the past 5 months. Just ended it with her for a long list that is irrelevant here. My question is after 5 months I have no clue if girl number one is dating anyone or maybe completely put off with me for just going ghost after telling her when she asked me out that I was covered up and would text her when I could see daylight...

I'm trying to think of something witty and cute to see if there is any interest left on her end. Any help on what to say in this first text?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Shoot her a simple text that recalls a good time you had and say you hope she's doing well. Give her some time to respond. If she responds, ask her out. If she doesn't, you know the rest.
 
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HB8!! I need some mischief, this responsible adult stuff is exhausting. Ya up for dinner and drinks Thursday at way cool food and drink spot?

Less than a min. later.... I get the very excited response and boom just like that I'm back up at bat with her for Thur. she gets extra points for not putting me through any sh1t test...

Thanks for the input guys
 
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Clooney4life said:
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HB8!! I need some mischief, this responsible adult stuff is exhausting. Ya up for dinner and drinks Thursday at way cool food and drink spot?

Less than a min. later.... I get the very excited response and boom just like that I'm back up at bat with her for Thur. she gets extra points for not putting me through any sh1t test...

Thanks for the input guys
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Nice. That's how its done. :yes:
 
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I stole this one from Jeffy from RSD: "I feel like we are growing apart."

Depending on the girl, you can also add a ";)" or ":p" emoticon. It's worked pretty well for me.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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