"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Clooney4life

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Long story short... was seeing a few different girls, one really stood out and we had a good connection, she's fit, makes her own money, and is witty. I ended up choosing the younger big boobed one and dated her for the past 5 months. Just ended it with her for a long list that is irrelevant here. My question is after 5 months I have no clue if girl number one is dating anyone or maybe completely put off with me for just going ghost after telling her when she asked me out that I was covered up and would text her when I could see daylight...

I'm trying to think of something witty and cute to see if there is any interest left on her end. Any help on what to say in this first text?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Shoot her a simple text that recalls a good time you had and say you hope she's doing well. Give her some time to respond. If she responds, ask her out. If she doesn't, you know the rest.
 

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HB8!! I need some mischief, this responsible adult stuff is exhausting. Ya up for dinner and drinks Thursday at way cool food and drink spot?

Less than a min. later.... I get the very excited response and boom just like that I'm back up at bat with her for Thur. she gets extra points for not putting me through any sh1t test...

Thanks for the input guys
 

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Clooney4life said:
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HB8!! I need some mischief, this responsible adult stuff is exhausting. Ya up for dinner and drinks Thursday at way cool food and drink spot?

Less than a min. later.... I get the very excited response and boom just like that I'm back up at bat with her for Thur. she gets extra points for not putting me through any sh1t test...

Thanks for the input guys
Nice. That's how its done. :yes:
 

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I stole this one from Jeffy from RSD: "I feel like we are growing apart."

Depending on the girl, you can also add a ";)" or ":p" emoticon. It's worked pretty well for me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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