Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Good ones are always taken - Girls with boyfriends

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I would say someone who has integrity. Is honest and communicates what they think and feel. Lifts people, rather than pushes them down. Has ambition and pursues meaning over materials. Values educating their mind, body, soul in healthy manners. Shows up and is present. Listens and is receptive while being open to change. All these qualities make up a strong character. I believe this is for both men and women.
Speechless.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Young girls these days and women in general never really serious, they're always looking for better.
Aren't we all.

Don't take women seriously, unless it's business or family related.
 

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is this impossible for a woman to be?
It doesn’t serve her. It’s not part of her strategy. Men don’t count. Those qualities are obtainable by men for sure. And men should strive to meet their own moral code.

Women will use them against you if you don’t follow them of course. But her role in life has no use for men’s meanderings and abstract ideas.
They are just words to her the moment they don’t serve her or her present emotional state.
 
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Well I suppose this begs a most basic question gentlemen.

What exactly constitutes a “good one?”

And furthermore why isn’t a “good one” with you?

Serious inquires & food for thought.
This is indeed a serious question.

But it has always been easy to answer.

It's only hard for most men to answer this because most men wishes or thinks women should be rated according to male standards but females are not males thus their delusions, disappointments and ultimately disgust.

And that's why the "good one" isn't with them because the men here got it all wrong.

The "good one" is one that has the most pleasing physical looks (because it means higher survival rate for offsprings) and is at her most fertile years (no retard babies and higher survival rate).

Anything less is no longer the "good one".
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is indeed a serious question.

But it has always been easy to answer.

It's only hard for most men to answer this because most men wishes or thinks women should be rated according to male standards but females are not males thus their delusions, disappointments and ultimately disgust.

And that's why the "good one" isn't with them because the men here got it all wrong.

The "good one" is one that has the most pleasing physical looks (because it means higher survival rate for offsprings) and is at her most fertile years (no retard babies and higher survival rate).

Anything less is no longer the "good one".
Best answer. Lol
 

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This is indeed a serious question.

But it has always been easy to answer.

It's only hard for most men to answer this because most men wishes or thinks women should be rated according to male standards but females are not males thus their delusions, disappointments and ultimately disgust.

And that's why the "good one" isn't with them because the men here got it all wrong.

The "good one" is one that has the most pleasing physical looks (because it means higher survival rate for offsprings) and is at her most fertile years (no retard babies and higher survival rate).

Anything less is no longer the "good one".
By this point, the whole thing about gender dynamics is academic. Couldn’t be more simple.
 

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The good ones are the ones you're looking for and not those that are readily available.

My actually question perhaps phrased incorrectly... What's my playbook to steal her?
 

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The good ones are the ones you're looking for and not those that are readily available.

My actually question perhaps phrased incorrectly... What's my playbook to steal her?
Why do that when there’s plenty of hotties down the street? Don’t go looking for that unicorn, buddy.

You’d just be asking to get your sh!t wrecked.
 

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The good ones are the ones you're looking for and not those that are readily available.

My actually question perhaps phrased incorrectly... What's my playbook to steal her?
What r u looking for?

A male in a female's body?

A female to take over mommy that could also fvck you?

What is a "good one" for you?

Give us more details so we can then advice you properly.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Why do that when there’s plenty of hotties down the street? Don’t go looking for that unicorn, buddy.

You’d just be asking to get your sh!t wrecked.
I guess I'm open to anything these days. In my lifestyle and/or attitude, I don't really care about taking another man's girl.
 

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It's common sense that the good ones are always taken. Let's face it, when you desire a woman because she is attractive and likable of course tons of other men will feel the same way about her and try to lock her down. Most women are locked down by the time they are 25, anything past this is very unusual and there is generally a reason for it.

Seriously, it is in a man's best interest to try to find an attractive and good girl when she is in her late teens or early-mid twenties and try to get into a relationship with her. Past a certain point you are going to find that the women that are single are so for a reason. Getting into your late twenties through early 30s you are going to find that the women available to you already have a kid or two, which really is a major issue.

I'm 29, I workout regularly and take care of myself so I'm very fit and will age well. I went to a speed dating event in April and to say the least I felt very out of place there but it was also an eye opener. Literally all that is available to me are women well below my league, not just physically but in regards to where they are at in life. If I could give my younger self advice it would be to become far more proactive with trying to meet women, because the pickings become increasingly slimmer the older you get. I'll come across women that are around my age and I don't even recognize them as potential dating prospects, but when a significant portion of our country is overweight or obese it is understandable.
 
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