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Young girls these days and women in general never really serious, they're always looking for better.

What's the playbook?
 

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No point keyboard jockeying over this. Women will be women. The IG thots will be IG thots. You cannot try to change them and they do not care about you.

Focus on living a good lifestyle and being healthy.

If the women doesn't pick you, that's YOUR fault and not hers. I used to blame women all the time (that's why I got kind of a bad rep on here), but I am slowly realizing that women are programmed to do certain things that are not their fault.
 

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No point keyboard jockeying over this. Women will be women. The IG thots will be IG thots. You cannot try to change them and they do not care about you.

Focus on living a good lifestyle and being healthy.

If the women doesn't pick you, that's YOUR fault and not hers. I used to blame women all the time (that's why I got kind of a bad rep on here), but I am slowly realizing that women are programmed to do certain things that are not their fault.
How is it your fault she didnt choose you?
 

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No point keyboard jockeying over this. Women will be women. The IG thots will be IG thots. You cannot try to change them and they do not care about you.

Focus on living a good lifestyle and being healthy.

If the women doesn't pick you, that's YOUR fault and not hers. I used to blame women all the time (that's why I got kind of a bad rep on here), but I am slowly realizing that women are programmed to do certain things that are not their fault.
Don’t worry, she will choose you when she has a few bastard children and the only guys hitting on her are in their 50’s and up. You will suddenly be the “good guy I always wanted and should have dated in the past, and now I know what I really want after a lifetime of bad decisions.”
 

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No point keyboard jockeying over this. Women will be women. The IG thots will be IG thots. You cannot try to change them and they do not care about you.

Focus on living a good lifestyle and being healthy.

If the women doesn't pick you, that's YOUR fault and not hers. I used to blame women all the time (that's why I got kind of a bad rep on here), but I am slowly realizing that women are programmed to do certain things that are not their fault.
Partially right. IF the dude is high value and she passes, then it's her fault. If the dude is a lazy soy boy, then it is his.
 

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Partially right. IF the dude is high value and she passes, then it's her fault. If the dude is a lazy soy boy, then it is his.
Exactly. I am assuming that this forum values self-improvement more than women bashing but I might be wrong. When I bashed women I got a lot of flak for it (people calling me a beta cuck, etc) but it seems like nowdays, bashing women means you're an MGTOW alpha. Go figure.
 

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The only thing to worry about is if you’re fulfilling your purpose as best as you can. Women choose the strongest men who aren’t afraid to lose. Women despise men who will lose themeselves to garner her attention and foster a ‘connection’.

Women become serious about men who are serious about themselves.
Values, boundaries, character. Three pillars. Define yours fast and do not put up with anything less
 

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Exactly. I am assuming that this forum values self-improvement more than women bashing but I might be wrong. When I bashed women I got a lot of flak for it (people calling me a beta cuck, etc) but it seems like nowdays, bashing women means you're an MGTOW alpha. Go figure.
It’s not bashing them just to bash them. Nothing wrong with bashing their dumbass ways and decisions though.
 

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Women choose the strongest men who aren’t afraid to lose. Women despise men who will lose themeselves to garner her attention and foster a ‘connection’.

Women become serious about men who are serious about themselves.
Values, boundaries, character. Three pillars. Define yours fast and do not put up with anything less
This is the only post here that matters.

Follow this OP and you'll be fine.
 

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Young girls these days and women in general never really serious, they're always looking for better.

What's the playbook?
Their playbook is imprinted inside them. There's the biology aspect but there's also the existing social structure imprint. The social imprint is a mold that changes form with the winds of small changes in the present day. Women are without form. This is true or otherwise they wouldn't keep changing form based on social whims.

The constants are their playbook. It requires understanding the difference between strategic and tactical. This is so men can understand it. STRATEGIC is the overall theater of operation. The strategic plan is always the same. Overall this is her Strategic Plan that not only fits her biological imperative but encompasses the present cultural initiatives...

In general, women will choose an animal existence - a lower form of life - and opt
for her physical well being, a place to breed, and an opportunity to indulge
unhindered in her breeding habits.
Esther Vilar
This quote should cover just about everything. Including every chapter of The Rational Male. The very first second that you don't believe this to be a fundamental truth...you are in danger. This statement alone should wipe out all your beliefs. This can never be changed. The second you fail as a masculine man, this strategic plan immediately takes over and you loose. Will every woman cheat? Absolutely. You cant think otherwise without being a fool. It really does depend on her tolerance level. Drive her over the edge with your feminine and absolutely she will cheat.
Well, some may be kind enough to break up or leave right before another man climbs on top of her. In most cases...no warning, no evidence. She not only lies better and covers her tracks better that you, you have no chance of competing with that skill level. It is genetically driven. Centuries of skill bundled up in that woman.

Here's the real tragic part in this. You are irrelevant. They don't even dress up for you when you go out. She is dressing up for other women. Women are not oppressed and you are irrelevant in the world of women. Here is how deeply the entire western world has been duped by the Feminine Imperative...

"Women feel anything but oppressed by men. On the contrary, one of the many depressing truths
about the relationship between the sexes is simply that man hardly exists in a woman's world.
Women's dependence on him is only material, of a "physical" nature, something like a tourist's
dependence on an airline, a cafe proprietor's on his expresso machine, a car on gasoline, or
a TV's on electrical current. Such dependencies hardly involve agonizing."
Esther Vilar​


This should make an impact on you. Such women are in power. Now take EVERYTHING that is not in the above statement, that you believe in, and trash it. Take all of your fantasies and ideas of love. Take all of those political things the world told you. They were all scams to trick you and manipulate you to supporting women in their strategic plan. This is the Feminine Imperative. There is no oppression. There is no inequality, except that she wants to make enough money so that she can squander in luxury and fuk till the cows come home and hire nanny's to care for her children. Free childcare to give her more luxury time. She must enslave the mind's of men because they are beautiful and infinitely creative. She does not have a beautiful mind (though she can be fun), she does not have the creativity of men to build worlds and universes.

Beyond sex, she has no use for a man at all if she can get the government to supply everything else. Until then she has the state slowly declining with the use of communism (feminism) to eventually bring about a world of slavery to supply her indulgences and free reign to execute her sexual breeding strategy.

Look at every idea put into your head about the world today. It was a lie.

There's her playbook. Still want to know whats in it? Ignore it at your own peril. The entire western world was built on a lie and women have been used as well, by empowerment, to reduce a civilization to a basic production force. This is called the Feminine Imperative.

Do not listen to her words. She is a biologically driven creature that has no form and can thus be molded to kill off your dreams and think its just. You better become a better man.
 

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Their playbook is imprinted inside them. There's the biology aspect but there's also the existing social structure imprint. The social imprint is a mold that changes form with the winds of small changes in the present day. Women are without form. This is true or otherwise they wouldn't keep changing form based on social whims.

The constants are their playbook. It requires understanding the difference between strategic and tactical. This is so men can understand it. STRATEGIC is the overall theater of operation. The strategic plan is always the same. Overall this is her Strategic Plan that not only fits her biological imperative but encompasses the present cultural initiatives...

In general, women will choose an animal existence - a lower form of life - and opt
for her physical well being, a place to breed, and an opportunity to indulge
unhindered in her breeding habits.
Esther Vilar
This quote should cover just about everything. Including every chapter of The Rational Male. The very first second that you don't believe this to be a fundamental truth...you are in danger. This statement alone should wipe out all your beliefs. This can never be changed. The second you fail as a masculine man, this strategic plan immediately takes over and you loose. Will every woman cheat? Absolutely. You cant think otherwise without being a fool. It really does depend on her tolerance level. Drive her over the edge with your feminine and absolutely she will cheat.
Well, some may be kind enough to break up or leave right before another man climbs on top of her. In most cases...no warning, no evidence. She not only lies better and covers her tracks better that you, you have no chance of competing with that skill level. It is genetically driven. Centuries of skill bundled up in that woman.

Here's the real tragic part in this. You are irrelevant. They don't even dress up for you when you go out. She is dressing up for other women. Women are not oppressed and you are irrelevant in the world of women. Here is how deeply the entire western world has been duped by the Feminine Imperative...

"Women feel anything but oppressed by men. On the contrary, one of the many depressing truths
about the relationship between the sexes is simply that man hardly exists in a woman's world.
Women's dependence on him is only material, of a "physical" nature, something like a tourist's
dependence on an airline, a cafe proprietor's on his expresso machine, a car on gasoline, or
a TV's on electrical current. Such dependencies hardly involve agonizing."
Esther Vilar​


This should make an impact on you. Such women are in power. Now take EVERYTHING that is not in the above statement, that you believe in, and trash it. Take all of your fantasies and ideas of love. Take all of those political things the world told you. They were all scams to trick you and manipulate you to supporting women in their strategic plan. This is the Feminine Imperative. There is no oppression. There is no inequality, except that she wants to make enough money so that she can squander in luxury and fuk till the cows come home and hire nanny's to care for her children. Free childcare to give her more luxury time. She must enslave the mind's of men because they are beautiful and infinitely creative. She does not have a beautiful mind (though she can be fun), she does not have the creativity of men to build worlds and universes.

Beyond sex, she has no use for a man at all if she can get the government to supply everything else. Until then she has the state slowly declining with the use of communism (feminism) to eventually bring about a world of slavery to supply her indulgences and free reign to execute her sexual breeding strategy.

Look at every idea put into your head about the world today. It was a lie.

There's her playbook. Still want to know whats in it? Ignore it at your own peril. The entire western world was built on a lie and women have been used as well, by empowerment, to reduce a civilization to a basic production force. This is called the Feminine Imperative.

Do not listen to her words. She is a biologically driven creature that has no form and can thus be molded to kill off your dreams and think its just. You better become a better man.
They have a communicated playbook fit for 2019. Its not all instinct. They are being coached.
 

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They have a communicated playbook fit for 2019. Its not all instinct. They are being coached.
Of course. I wrote this in the second paragraph... "Overall this is her Strategic Plan that not only fits her biological imperative but encompasses the present cultural initiatives..."

It might have been me but I did cover it. This is what communism/socialism is. They are being coached and the women vote for those that take her to her Strategic goals. Women are complicit completely. They follow the emotions and emotions are governed by genetics and the endocrine system.
 
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Their playbook is imprinted inside them. There's the biology aspect but there's also the existing social structure imprint. The social imprint is a mold that changes form with the winds of small changes in the present day. Women are without form. This is true or otherwise they wouldn't keep changing form based on social whims.

The constants are their playbook. It requires understanding the difference between strategic and tactical. This is so men can understand it. STRATEGIC is the overall theater of operation. The strategic plan is always the same. Overall this is her Strategic Plan that not only fits her biological imperative but encompasses the present cultural initiatives...

In general, women will choose an animal existence - a lower form of life - and opt
for her physical well being, a place to breed, and an opportunity to indulge
unhindered in her breeding habits.
Esther Vilar
This quote should cover just about everything. Including every chapter of The Rational Male. The very first second that you don't believe this to be a fundamental truth...you are in danger. This statement alone should wipe out all your beliefs. This can never be changed. The second you fail as a masculine man, this strategic plan immediately takes over and you loose. Will every woman cheat? Absolutely. You cant think otherwise without being a fool. It really does depend on her tolerance level. Drive her over the edge with your feminine and absolutely she will cheat.
Well, some may be kind enough to break up or leave right before another man climbs on top of her. In most cases...no warning, no evidence. She not only lies better and covers her tracks better that you, you have no chance of competing with that skill level. It is genetically driven. Centuries of skill bundled up in that woman.

Here's the real tragic part in this. You are irrelevant. They don't even dress up for you when you go out. She is dressing up for other women. Women are not oppressed and you are irrelevant in the world of women. Here is how deeply the entire western world has been duped by the Feminine Imperative...

"Women feel anything but oppressed by men. On the contrary, one of the many depressing truths
about the relationship between the sexes is simply that man hardly exists in a woman's world.
Women's dependence on him is only material, of a "physical" nature, something like a tourist's
dependence on an airline, a cafe proprietor's on his expresso machine, a car on gasoline, or
a TV's on electrical current. Such dependencies hardly involve agonizing."
Esther Vilar​


This should make an impact on you. Such women are in power. Now take EVERYTHING that is not in the above statement, that you believe in, and trash it. Take all of your fantasies and ideas of love. Take all of those political things the world told you. They were all scams to trick you and manipulate you to supporting women in their strategic plan. This is the Feminine Imperative. There is no oppression. There is no inequality, except that she wants to make enough money so that she can squander in luxury and fuk till the cows come home and hire nanny's to care for her children. Free childcare to give her more luxury time. She must enslave the mind's of men because they are beautiful and infinitely creative. She does not have a beautiful mind (though she can be fun), she does not have the creativity of men to build worlds and universes.

Beyond sex, she has no use for a man at all if she can get the government to supply everything else. Until then she has the state slowly declining with the use of communism (feminism) to eventually bring about a world of slavery to supply her indulgences and free reign to execute her sexual breeding strategy.

Look at every idea put into your head about the world today. It was a lie.

There's her playbook. Still want to know whats in it? Ignore it at your own peril. The entire western world was built on a lie and women have been used as well, by empowerment, to reduce a civilization to a basic production force. This is called the Feminine Imperative.

Do not listen to her words. She is a biologically driven creature that has no form and can thus be molded to kill off your dreams and think its just. You better become a better man.
Boom. The fantasy land of relationships, white picket fence, none it was real. Part of me always knew that. I should’ve listened to my gut back in high school. Back then I didn’t give a sh!t about relationships. I looked at the hotties that ran around with the jocks and just wanted to spank that thonged ass. I started to look for girlfriends because it what everybody else did. But, I also wanted to achieve things. I had dreams and goals.

My comment ties into both what @Spaz and @Epic Days said. That old masculinity I had back in high school? Beat right out of me. I should’ve fvckin listened to myself back then. Never should’ve pined over anything. “Why doesn’t she love me?” Oh please. I’m going back to my attitude from the Marines. An aggressive fire-eater that wanted to kick ass and bang chicks.
 

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The playbook in a nutshell is basically this:

Fvck as many Chads as possible.

Have Chads kids.

Find a sucker to take care of Chads kids when Chad no longer wants you. Tell the sucker he will have to wait for sex (even though Chad didn’t wait). And sucker will wait and wait and wait and maybe get laid a couple times out of pitty but it’ll be passionless boring sex.
 

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The only thing to worry about is if you’re fulfilling your purpose as best as you can. Women choose the strongest men who aren’t afraid to lose. Women despise men who will lose themeselves to garner her attention and foster a ‘connection’.

Women become serious about men who are serious about themselves.
Values, boundaries, character. Three pillars. Define yours fast and do not put up with anything less
Agree with the first part.

Disagree with the 2nd part.

Women don’t care if men are serious about themselves, women care if they can get something out of you, extract your resources. You could be the most serious guy in the world, but if she can’t get something out of you, you are useless to her.

Women don’t care about values, boundaries, character. That stuff is Disney. Women care about who WINS the game. The man who is power and respect, not the man is has character. How many movie stars have “character”? How many politicians have “values”? How many athletes have “boundaries”?

That stuff helps you in the business world where people spend their MONEY on you. But with women, it’s about WINNING. If you can beat the competition, you will turn them on.
 

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What exactly constitutes a “good one?”
I would love the answer to this one as well. I will wait for the answers.
Not that I’m looking for one so it’s a mute point for me.
 

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Women don’t care if men are serious about themselves, women care if they can get something out of you, extract your resources. You could be the most serious guy in the world, but if she can’t get something out of you, you are useless to her.
Women certainly care about men who are serious about themselves. Its what creates admiration and respect. Hard to respect a man who doesn't respect himself.


Women don’t care about values, boundaries, character.
Good women do. Lower value women probably don't.

But I was more-so speaking towards the men. They need to know their three. Nothing should be done for the woman. It should be done for the self first. That's where all care for things and abundance derives from.


But with women, it’s about WINNING. If you can beat the competition, you will turn them on.
What exactly is winning?



Their playbook is imprinted inside them. There's the biology aspect but there's also the existing social structure imprint. The social imprint is a mold that changes form with the winds of small changes in the present day. Women are without form. This is true or otherwise they wouldn't keep changing form based on social whims.

The constants are their playbook. It requires understanding the difference between strategic and tactical. This is so men can understand it. STRATEGIC is the overall theater of operation. The strategic plan is always the same. Overall this is her Strategic Plan that not only fits her biological imperative but encompasses the present cultural initiatives...

In general, women will choose an animal existence - a lower form of life - and opt
for her physical well being, a place to breed, and an opportunity to indulge
unhindered in her breeding habits.
Esther Vilar
This quote should cover just about everything. Including every chapter of The Rational Male. The very first second that you don't believe this to be a fundamental truth...you are in danger. This statement alone should wipe out all your beliefs. This can never be changed. The second you fail as a masculine man, this strategic plan immediately takes over and you loose. Will every woman cheat? Absolutely. You cant think otherwise without being a fool. It really does depend on her tolerance level. Drive her over the edge with your feminine and absolutely she will cheat.
Well, some may be kind enough to break up or leave right before another man climbs on top of her. In most cases...no warning, no evidence. She not only lies better and covers her tracks better that you, you have no chance of competing with that skill level. It is genetically driven. Centuries of skill bundled up in that woman.

Here's the real tragic part in this. You are irrelevant. They don't even dress up for you when you go out. She is dressing up for other women. Women are not oppressed and you are irrelevant in the world of women. Here is how deeply the entire western world has been duped by the Feminine Imperative...

"Women feel anything but oppressed by men. On the contrary, one of the many depressing truths
about the relationship between the sexes is simply that man hardly exists in a woman's world.
Women's dependence on him is only material, of a "physical" nature, something like a tourist's
dependence on an airline, a cafe proprietor's on his expresso machine, a car on gasoline, or
a TV's on electrical current. Such dependencies hardly involve agonizing."
Esther Vilar​


This should make an impact on you. Such women are in power. Now take EVERYTHING that is not in the above statement, that you believe in, and trash it. Take all of your fantasies and ideas of love. Take all of those political things the world told you. They were all scams to trick you and manipulate you to supporting women in their strategic plan. This is the Feminine Imperative. There is no oppression. There is no inequality, except that she wants to make enough money so that she can squander in luxury and fuk till the cows come home and hire nanny's to care for her children. Free childcare to give her more luxury time. She must enslave the mind's of men because they are beautiful and infinitely creative. She does not have a beautiful mind (though she can be fun), she does not have the creativity of men to build worlds and universes.

Beyond sex, she has no use for a man at all if she can get the government to supply everything else. Until then she has the state slowly declining with the use of communism (feminism) to eventually bring about a world of slavery to supply her indulgences and free reign to execute her sexual breeding strategy.

Look at every idea put into your head about the world today. It was a lie.

There's her playbook. Still want to know whats in it? Ignore it at your own peril. The entire western world was built on a lie and women have been used as well, by empowerment, to reduce a civilization to a basic production force. This is called the Feminine Imperative.

Do not listen to her words. She is a biologically driven creature that has no form and can thus be molded to kill off your dreams and think its just. You better become a better man.
Very intense. I will have to pick up Esther's book.
 

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What exactly constitutes a “good one?”
I would say someone who has integrity. Is honest and communicates what they think and feel. Lifts people, rather than pushes them down. Has ambition and pursues meaning over materials. Values educating their mind, body, soul in healthy manners. Shows up and is present. Listens and is receptive while being open to change. All these qualities make up a strong character. I believe this is for both men and women.
 
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