"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Good looks lets be honest

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lets get this straight if brad bit or keano reevs wasnt a movie star girls wont approach them. many evryday guys are better looking but still wont get sex as much as the movie stars.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Always listen to the French guys. They are usually naturally smooth.

Anyways, looks matter but you can comensate for them. I mean come on, look at the women Donald Trump has shtupped. Do you really think they were with him for his ravishing lady-killer looks? No, they were with him because he is rich and powerful.

Women like men who they can brag about for whatever reason and make their friends jealous. Women are all about impressing other people, much moreso than men on the average.

So, you have to have SOMETHING that makes you excellent, a guy that can be bragged about. You either can be a fascinating social-type (mystery, style, pua's), or you can be good looking (pitt, bloom, et al), a sexual master (big ****, tantra knowledge, etc), or accomplished (read, famous), or tops in a field that the woman is interested in, eg a "lacrosse rat," a girl who looks up to the lacrosse team, sleeping with the captain. That stuff happens a LOT. Some girls will get off on a guy who is blisteringly intelligent. Not a lot, but some do.
 
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Ok lets repeat this one more time. Say your in a bar or club and you see an attractive woman and you go talk to her, do you really think a really attractive girl would even give an average looking guy a chance compared to a good looking guy? What Im saying has been said many times before, looks are not everything but usually beautiful women do not go for ugly guys.
 
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NeonBase said:
I agree with you... Too many people on this site say they are good looking, but when they finally put a pic up.. They're ugly as hell! I think it's wired into our minds to believe we are good looking.. lol at least for a lot of us.
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I don't really believe i'm good looking but i'm told i'm hot all the time. I really don't see it that much myself though.
 
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