"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Good looks lets be honest

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lets get this straight if brad bit or keano reevs wasnt a movie star girls wont approach them. many evryday guys are better looking but still wont get sex as much as the movie stars.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Always listen to the French guys. They are usually naturally smooth.

Anyways, looks matter but you can comensate for them. I mean come on, look at the women Donald Trump has shtupped. Do you really think they were with him for his ravishing lady-killer looks? No, they were with him because he is rich and powerful.

Women like men who they can brag about for whatever reason and make their friends jealous. Women are all about impressing other people, much moreso than men on the average.

So, you have to have SOMETHING that makes you excellent, a guy that can be bragged about. You either can be a fascinating social-type (mystery, style, pua's), or you can be good looking (pitt, bloom, et al), a sexual master (big ****, tantra knowledge, etc), or accomplished (read, famous), or tops in a field that the woman is interested in, eg a "lacrosse rat," a girl who looks up to the lacrosse team, sleeping with the captain. That stuff happens a LOT. Some girls will get off on a guy who is blisteringly intelligent. Not a lot, but some do.
 
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Ok lets repeat this one more time. Say your in a bar or club and you see an attractive woman and you go talk to her, do you really think a really attractive girl would even give an average looking guy a chance compared to a good looking guy? What Im saying has been said many times before, looks are not everything but usually beautiful women do not go for ugly guys.
 
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NeonBase said:
I agree with you... Too many people on this site say they are good looking, but when they finally put a pic up.. They're ugly as hell! I think it's wired into our minds to believe we are good looking.. lol at least for a lot of us.
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I don't really believe i'm good looking but i'm told i'm hot all the time. I really don't see it that much myself though.
 
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