"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good looks have hindered my game

Handsfull

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Alright. I saw someone a few weeks ago get flamed for relying on their looks to get them pvssy. I am guily of that as well. Any advice that would specifically help better looking guys?

I think the game you run, to some degree, depends on your looks. i think being too ****y/ funny guy has hurt me in some situations because its too much. And I am good at that type of discourse. It's natural for me. My instincts have told me to tone it down a bit at times.

I have not found too much material on different types of game. A lot of generalizations out there, etc.

Really I think personally my only real glaring weakness is developing oneitis. Holy sh1t. Does anyone not ever get this?
I'll be runnin it on girls, even the one I'm really gunning for- then oneitis sets in. Shell be THE BEST FVCKING THING EVERRRRRR. God Damn1t, I fight it off. And it comes back. And I spin a plate, **** another girl to keep my head straight, then I feel guilty or something. i get a consience, etc. Confidence erodes. I fight back. Take my balls back. But by that time, theres a power struggle and one of us is gonna lose. Gotta go find another oneitis...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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why fight it.. falling in love heads over heels is the best roller coaster ride on earth. Just keep going from one ride to the next. As long as you are aware of whats going on and know how to not get hurt.

I'm on this ride as well.
 

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juicywa said:
why fight it.. falling in love heads over heels is the best roller coaster ride on earth. Just keep going from one ride to the next. As long as you are aware of whats going on and know how to not get hurt.

I'm on this ride as well.
fvck that dude. when the "itis' sets in, your fvcked. its ovuh. let them develop the "itis". its much better being in that dynamic.
 
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