"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Good looks have hindered my game

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Alright. I saw someone a few weeks ago get flamed for relying on their looks to get them pvssy. I am guily of that as well. Any advice that would specifically help better looking guys?

I think the game you run, to some degree, depends on your looks. i think being too ****y/ funny guy has hurt me in some situations because its too much. And I am good at that type of discourse. It's natural for me. My instincts have told me to tone it down a bit at times.

I have not found too much material on different types of game. A lot of generalizations out there, etc.

Really I think personally my only real glaring weakness is developing oneitis. Holy sh1t. Does anyone not ever get this?
I'll be runnin it on girls, even the one I'm really gunning for- then oneitis sets in. Shell be THE BEST FVCKING THING EVERRRRRR. God Damn1t, I fight it off. And it comes back. And I spin a plate, **** another girl to keep my head straight, then I feel guilty or something. i get a consience, etc. Confidence erodes. I fight back. Take my balls back. But by that time, theres a power struggle and one of us is gonna lose. Gotta go find another oneitis...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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why fight it.. falling in love heads over heels is the best roller coaster ride on earth. Just keep going from one ride to the next. As long as you are aware of whats going on and know how to not get hurt.

I'm on this ride as well.
 
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juicywa said:
why fight it.. falling in love heads over heels is the best roller coaster ride on earth. Just keep going from one ride to the next. As long as you are aware of whats going on and know how to not get hurt.

I'm on this ride as well.
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fvck that dude. when the "itis' sets in, your fvcked. its ovuh. let them develop the "itis". its much better being in that dynamic.
 
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