"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Good looks have hindered my game

Handsfull

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Alright. I saw someone a few weeks ago get flamed for relying on their looks to get them pvssy. I am guily of that as well. Any advice that would specifically help better looking guys?

I think the game you run, to some degree, depends on your looks. i think being too ****y/ funny guy has hurt me in some situations because its too much. And I am good at that type of discourse. It's natural for me. My instincts have told me to tone it down a bit at times.

I have not found too much material on different types of game. A lot of generalizations out there, etc.

Really I think personally my only real glaring weakness is developing oneitis. Holy sh1t. Does anyone not ever get this?
I'll be runnin it on girls, even the one I'm really gunning for- then oneitis sets in. Shell be THE BEST FVCKING THING EVERRRRRR. God Damn1t, I fight it off. And it comes back. And I spin a plate, **** another girl to keep my head straight, then I feel guilty or something. i get a consience, etc. Confidence erodes. I fight back. Take my balls back. But by that time, theres a power struggle and one of us is gonna lose. Gotta go find another oneitis...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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why fight it.. falling in love heads over heels is the best roller coaster ride on earth. Just keep going from one ride to the next. As long as you are aware of whats going on and know how to not get hurt.

I'm on this ride as well.
 

Handsfull

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juicywa said:
why fight it.. falling in love heads over heels is the best roller coaster ride on earth. Just keep going from one ride to the next. As long as you are aware of whats going on and know how to not get hurt.

I'm on this ride as well.
fvck that dude. when the "itis' sets in, your fvcked. its ovuh. let them develop the "itis". its much better being in that dynamic.
 
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