“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Good looks have hindered my game

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Alright. I saw someone a few weeks ago get flamed for relying on their looks to get them pvssy. I am guily of that as well. Any advice that would specifically help better looking guys?

I think the game you run, to some degree, depends on your looks. i think being too ****y/ funny guy has hurt me in some situations because its too much. And I am good at that type of discourse. It's natural for me. My instincts have told me to tone it down a bit at times.

I have not found too much material on different types of game. A lot of generalizations out there, etc.

Really I think personally my only real glaring weakness is developing oneitis. Holy sh1t. Does anyone not ever get this?
I'll be runnin it on girls, even the one I'm really gunning for- then oneitis sets in. Shell be THE BEST FVCKING THING EVERRRRRR. God Damn1t, I fight it off. And it comes back. And I spin a plate, **** another girl to keep my head straight, then I feel guilty or something. i get a consience, etc. Confidence erodes. I fight back. Take my balls back. But by that time, theres a power struggle and one of us is gonna lose. Gotta go find another oneitis...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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why fight it.. falling in love heads over heels is the best roller coaster ride on earth. Just keep going from one ride to the next. As long as you are aware of whats going on and know how to not get hurt.

I'm on this ride as well.
 

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juicywa said:
why fight it.. falling in love heads over heels is the best roller coaster ride on earth. Just keep going from one ride to the next. As long as you are aware of whats going on and know how to not get hurt.

I'm on this ride as well.
fvck that dude. when the "itis' sets in, your fvcked. its ovuh. let them develop the "itis". its much better being in that dynamic.
 
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