MatureDJ
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Good grief! Woman "marries" herself
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It will never lastMatureDJ said:
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear HitHard,
That is really hilarious.
That is really hilarious.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but in most Asian cultures, isn't being a single woman at 30 a bad thing. You know like being an old maid? This probably makes sense, especially when coupled with these statements...
hypergamy, feminism, cultural norms. This is probably the only marriage this woman will have, someone get her some cats, stat!
5string
Master Don Juan
I didnt see where she was a founding member of Sex Without Partners
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
5string
Master Don Juan
That's funny!^^^^☜╬☞ said:
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
And thus did Narcissus fall into the pool and drowned.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ken chang
Don Juan
I read that the responses from other women are both sympathetic and positive.
I counter with female robot. Still not ready for prime time yet, but you get the idea. In a couple of years..the woman in op's article will be obsolete.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WbFFs4DHWys&NR=1&feature=fvwp
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WbFFs4DHWys&NR=1&feature=fvwp