MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Good grief! Woman "marries" herself
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
It will never lastMatureDJ said:
Scaramouche
Master Don Juan
Dear HitHard,
That is really hilarious.
That is really hilarious.
Correct me if I'm wrong, but in most Asian cultures, isn't being a single woman at 30 a bad thing. You know like being an old maid? This probably makes sense, especially when coupled with these statements...
hypergamy, feminism, cultural norms. This is probably the only marriage this woman will have, someone get her some cats, stat!
5string
Master Don Juan
I didnt see where she was a founding member of Sex Without Partners
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
5string
Master Don Juan
That's funny!^^^^☜╬☞ said:
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
And thus did Narcissus fall into the pool and drowned.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ken chang
Don Juan
I read that the responses from other women are both sympathetic and positive.
I counter with female robot. Still not ready for prime time yet, but you get the idea. In a couple of years..the woman in op's article will be obsolete.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WbFFs4DHWys&NR=1&feature=fvwp
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WbFFs4DHWys&NR=1&feature=fvwp