"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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good dress shirt with suit?

defiancy

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Alright I am planning to go to a speech and debate tournament this friday and I have my suit and dress shirt ready. But I'm wondering if my shirt color is appropriate for my black suit.

http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=156553&CategoryID=22675&LinkType=EverGreen


it's the color on the top of the other two. Is this fine with a black suit you think? Sorry if you think my question is stupid, but I'm just wondering if I should stick to a classic white or gray.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Looks like it should be fine, if a little boring. Are you wearing a tie?
 

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yea
 
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