"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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good dress shirt with suit?

defiancy

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Alright I am planning to go to a speech and debate tournament this friday and I have my suit and dress shirt ready. But I'm wondering if my shirt color is appropriate for my black suit.

http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=156553&CategoryID=22675&LinkType=EverGreen


it's the color on the top of the other two. Is this fine with a black suit you think? Sorry if you think my question is stupid, but I'm just wondering if I should stick to a classic white or gray.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Looks like it should be fine, if a little boring. Are you wearing a tie?
 

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yea
 
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