"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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good dress shirt with suit?

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defiancy

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Alright I am planning to go to a speech and debate tournament this friday and I have my suit and dress shirt ready. But I'm wondering if my shirt color is appropriate for my black suit.

http://www1.macys.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=156553&CategoryID=22675&LinkType=EverGreen


it's the color on the top of the other two. Is this fine with a black suit you think? Sorry if you think my question is stupid, but I'm just wondering if I should stick to a classic white or gray.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Looks like it should be fine, if a little boring. Are you wearing a tie?
 
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yea
 
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