Good date or bad date?

[SteveBlaine]

I had a date last night. She ordered two whiskeys. I ordered water and then later a beer..
We talked for about two hours and flirted. Then I ended the date.
She ended up paying for my drinks.. lol. Never had a woman pay for my drinks and I called her out and asked her why she bought my drinks? I said "I am a man I don't need a woman paying for my drink." Then afterwards we walked to our cars. I pulled her in and we pecked kissed and hugged. She was nervous. She said well if you are interested you have my number. I sent her a message this morning. She blew me off.

Not sure why women do that? lol. I am guessing shes a control freak?

 

[sazc]

Do you mean she replied to your text and blew you off? Or simply didn't reply?

How do you know she's not busy or working or otherwise occupied? Maybe she doesn't want to seem too eager or she wants to gauge your IL ? Did she text you yet?

 

[SteveBlaine]

Yes she texted me. She's cool. I jumped the gun. So far everything is good.

 

[Glassguy]

Yes she texted me. She's cool. I jumped the gun. So far everything is good.

Chill out dude. Play it cool or this is going to end faster than the 100 meter dash.

The only thing you need to do at this point is schedule the next date. Try to eliminate all texting chit chat unless she initiates it. Even then, keep it short and sweet and save it for the next date.

 

[Roober]

Chill out dude. Play it cool or this is going to end faster than the 100 meter dash.

The only thing you need to do at this point is schedule the next date. Try to eliminate all texting chit chat unless she initiates it. Even then, keep it short and sweet and save it for the next date.

And don't see her more than once a week! If she texts, reply but no drawn out convos

 

[SteveBlaine]

Good plan.