"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Good date or bad date?

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I had a date last night. She ordered two whiskeys. I ordered water and then later a beer..
We talked for about two hours and flirted. Then I ended the date.
She ended up paying for my drinks.. lol. Never had a woman pay for my drinks and I called her out and asked her why she bought my drinks? I said "I am a man I don't need a woman paying for my drink." Then afterwards we walked to our cars. I pulled her in and we pecked kissed and hugged. She was nervous. She said well if you are interested you have my number. I sent her a message this morning. She blew me off.

Not sure why women do that? lol. I am guessing shes a control freak?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you mean she replied to your text and blew you off? Or simply didn't reply?

How do you know she's not busy or working or otherwise occupied? Maybe she doesn't want to seem too eager or she wants to gauge your IL ? Did she text you yet?
 
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Yes she texted me. She's cool. I jumped the gun. So far everything is good.
 
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SteveBlaine said:
Yes she texted me. She's cool. I jumped the gun. So far everything is good.
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Chill out dude. Play it cool or this is going to end faster than the 100 meter dash.

The only thing you need to do at this point is schedule the next date. Try to eliminate all texting chit chat unless she initiates it. Even then, keep it short and sweet and save it for the next date.
 
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Glassguy said:
Chill out dude. Play it cool or this is going to end faster than the 100 meter dash.

The only thing you need to do at this point is schedule the next date. Try to eliminate all texting chit chat unless she initiates it. Even then, keep it short and sweet and save it for the next date.
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And don't see her more than once a week! If she texts, reply but no drawn out convos
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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