"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Huffman,

Not completely ruling sex out ... I plan to do multiple spots in one date and end up in a bar close to her house :) so if everything goes well she and she invites me to he eplace or I feel like I can invite myself smoothly then I'm game. I'm leaning towards drinks, playing pool and moving to different venues. I've read that it's a good strategy.

Thinking about the art of crating mystery in the interactions..what would be good phrases to use? Would something like "there are things you don't know about me" work and increase hee curiosity or backfire.

She texted me that she's in a happy hr with old college friends. Sounded like she wanted me to go. But I have a meeting with dumbells and Barbella plus I rather not so group meets.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Guys,

We are building rapport and she texts me all the time now. I've been doing the 2/3 ratio.

She texted me an hour an a half ago about something and I haven't reponeed thinking not getting a response will increase attraction/curiosity.

When things are going well with a girl like in this case will not answering backfire?

What's your experience?

I don't want her to think I have nothing to do and that I'm too available.
 
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Nu Vision said:
Guys,

We are building rapport and she texts me all the time now. I've been doing the 2/3 ratio.

She texted me an hour an a half ago about something and I haven't reponeed thinking not getting a response will increase attraction/curiosity.

When things are going well with a girl like in this case will not answering backfire?

What's your experience?

I don't want her to think I have nothing to do and that I'm too available.
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Oh no this guy has oneitis already
 
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Good sh1t Mauser

How do you deduct that skinny? I'm implementing what I've learned in the game but questioning whether stuff like not texting for hrs is necessary with a girl who's already showing high interest.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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