"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good Date Ideas Other Than a Bar/Club/Restaurant?

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Nu Vision

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Huffman,

Not completely ruling sex out ... I plan to do multiple spots in one date and end up in a bar close to her house :) so if everything goes well she and she invites me to he eplace or I feel like I can invite myself smoothly then I'm game. I'm leaning towards drinks, playing pool and moving to different venues. I've read that it's a good strategy.

Thinking about the art of crating mystery in the interactions..what would be good phrases to use? Would something like "there are things you don't know about me" work and increase hee curiosity or backfire.

She texted me that she's in a happy hr with old college friends. Sounded like she wanted me to go. But I have a meeting with dumbells and Barbella plus I rather not so group meets.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Guys,

We are building rapport and she texts me all the time now. I've been doing the 2/3 ratio.

She texted me an hour an a half ago about something and I haven't reponeed thinking not getting a response will increase attraction/curiosity.

When things are going well with a girl like in this case will not answering backfire?

What's your experience?

I don't want her to think I have nothing to do and that I'm too available.
 
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Nu Vision said:
Guys,

We are building rapport and she texts me all the time now. I've been doing the 2/3 ratio.

She texted me an hour an a half ago about something and I haven't reponeed thinking not getting a response will increase attraction/curiosity.

When things are going well with a girl like in this case will not answering backfire?

What's your experience?

I don't want her to think I have nothing to do and that I'm too available.
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Oh no this guy has oneitis already
 
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Good sh1t Mauser

How do you deduct that skinny? I'm implementing what I've learned in the game but questioning whether stuff like not texting for hrs is necessary with a girl who's already showing high interest.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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