"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Good Date Ideas Other Than a Bar/Club/Restaurant?

Nu Vision

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Huffman,

Not completely ruling sex out ... I plan to do multiple spots in one date and end up in a bar close to her house :) so if everything goes well she and she invites me to he eplace or I feel like I can invite myself smoothly then I'm game. I'm leaning towards drinks, playing pool and moving to different venues. I've read that it's a good strategy.

Thinking about the art of crating mystery in the interactions..what would be good phrases to use? Would something like "there are things you don't know about me" work and increase hee curiosity or backfire.

She texted me that she's in a happy hr with old college friends. Sounded like she wanted me to go. But I have a meeting with dumbells and Barbella plus I rather not so group meets.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Nu Vision

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Guys,

We are building rapport and she texts me all the time now. I've been doing the 2/3 ratio.

She texted me an hour an a half ago about something and I haven't reponeed thinking not getting a response will increase attraction/curiosity.

When things are going well with a girl like in this case will not answering backfire?

What's your experience?

I don't want her to think I have nothing to do and that I'm too available.
 

skinnyguy

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Nu Vision said:
Guys,

We are building rapport and she texts me all the time now. I've been doing the 2/3 ratio.

She texted me an hour an a half ago about something and I haven't reponeed thinking not getting a response will increase attraction/curiosity.

When things are going well with a girl like in this case will not answering backfire?

What's your experience?

I don't want her to think I have nothing to do and that I'm too available.

Oh no this guy has oneitis already
 

Nu Vision

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Good sh1t Mauser

How do you deduct that skinny? I'm implementing what I've learned in the game but questioning whether stuff like not texting for hrs is necessary with a girl who's already showing high interest.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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