Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Good Date Ideas Other Than a Bar/Club/Restaurant?

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Huffman,

Not completely ruling sex out ... I plan to do multiple spots in one date and end up in a bar close to her house :) so if everything goes well she and she invites me to he eplace or I feel like I can invite myself smoothly then I'm game. I'm leaning towards drinks, playing pool and moving to different venues. I've read that it's a good strategy.

Thinking about the art of crating mystery in the interactions..what would be good phrases to use? Would something like "there are things you don't know about me" work and increase hee curiosity or backfire.

She texted me that she's in a happy hr with old college friends. Sounded like she wanted me to go. But I have a meeting with dumbells and Barbella plus I rather not so group meets.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Guys,

We are building rapport and she texts me all the time now. I've been doing the 2/3 ratio.

She texted me an hour an a half ago about something and I haven't reponeed thinking not getting a response will increase attraction/curiosity.

When things are going well with a girl like in this case will not answering backfire?

What's your experience?

I don't want her to think I have nothing to do and that I'm too available.
 
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Nu Vision said:
Guys,

We are building rapport and she texts me all the time now. I've been doing the 2/3 ratio.

She texted me an hour an a half ago about something and I haven't reponeed thinking not getting a response will increase attraction/curiosity.

When things are going well with a girl like in this case will not answering backfire?

What's your experience?

I don't want her to think I have nothing to do and that I'm too available.
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Oh no this guy has oneitis already
 
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Good sh1t Mauser

How do you deduct that skinny? I'm implementing what I've learned in the game but questioning whether stuff like not texting for hrs is necessary with a girl who's already showing high interest.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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