timmylivingalie
Senior Don Juan
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I still aint asked her out. I avoided her last nite and talked with one of her peers. I really cant think of anywhere good to take her.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Because it's the easiest path and you admitted as much.Pair A Dice said:And what's up with all of these guys trying to force feed girls alcohol so their inhibitions will be lower? Use your game to the point where alcohol isn't needed. Sure, it helps, but it's a dependent variable if you make it one.
Probaly 7 or 8backbreaker said:I think i might have a solution for you, however it will only work if you are sure she is into you.
on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being little and 10 being very much so, how much into you do you think she is.
then this is a pretty easy play that will work.timmylivingalie said:Probaly 7 or 8
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
then this is a pretty easy play that will work.timmylivingalie said:Probaly 7 or 8
Thanksbackbreaker said:then this is a pretty easy play that will work.
make her make the call. approach her, and tell her look... i know you've been looking at me and i admit you've caught my eye so i am going to give you the pleasure of letting you chose our first date. I'll pay for anything you want to do but i want to get to know you and i want to see just how interesting of a person you are or if you are like most girls your age who are boring.
this does a few things
1. puts the onus on her to come up with an idea and you can't screw up the first date
2. shows you have confidence in yourself
3. i assure you it will throw her for a loop women don't get approached like that very often
if she really is a 7 or 8 into you, she will come up with something,s he's not gonna pass up a chance to let a guy she is into learn more about her.
bam. game time