Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Good date Idea for 18 year old?

timmylivingalie

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I still aint asked her out. I avoided her last nite and talked with one of her peers. I really cant think of anywhere good to take her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I think i might have a solution for you, however it will only work if you are sure she is into you.

on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being little and 10 being very much so, how much into you do you think she is.
 

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Pair A Dice said:
And what's up with all of these guys trying to force feed girls alcohol so their inhibitions will be lower? Use your game to the point where alcohol isn't needed. Sure, it helps, but it's a dependent variable if you make it one.
Because it's the easiest path and you admitted as much.

To put it in more mathematical terms, if I can get a girl from meeting to bed in 10 hours without alcohol or in 2 hours with alcohol, why would I choose the former?

OP - here's something I do on my dates and you can try, especially if you're not taking her to a drinking joint.

Have her meet you at your place, invite her in for a minute (she will get comfortable with surroundings), offer her a pregame shot (you take one too), then bounce somewhere - bowling, throw rocks in a river, walk in a park, whatever. Don't make it complicated, she wants to spend time with you so WHAT you do doesn't really matter.

Then back to your place to watch a movie, aka fvck like wild animals while a movie plays in the background.

GL
 

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backbreaker said:
I think i might have a solution for you, however it will only work if you are sure she is into you.

on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being little and 10 being very much so, how much into you do you think she is.
Probaly 7 or 8
 

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timmylivingalie said:
Probaly 7 or 8
then this is a pretty easy play that will work.

make her make the call. approach her, and tell her look... i know you've been looking at me and i admit you've caught my eye so i am going to give you the pleasure of letting you chose our first date. I'll pay for anything you want to do but i want to get to know you and i want to see just how interesting of a person you are or if you are like most girls your age who are boring.



bam. game time
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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timmylivingalie said:
Probaly 7 or 8
then this is a pretty easy play that will work.

make her make the call. approach her, and tell her look... i know you've been looking at me and i admit you've caught my eye so i am going to give you the pleasure of letting you chose our first date. I'll pay for anything you want to do but i want to get to know you and i want to see just how interesting of a person you are or if you are like most girls your age who are boring.


this does a few things

1. puts the onus on her to come up with an idea and you can't screw up the first date
2. shows you have confidence in yourself
3. i assure you it will throw her for a loop women don't get approached like that very often


if she really is a 7 or 8 into you, she will come up with something,s he's not gonna pass up a chance to let a guy she is into learn more about her.


bam. game time
 

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backbreaker said:
then this is a pretty easy play that will work.

make her make the call. approach her, and tell her look... i know you've been looking at me and i admit you've caught my eye so i am going to give you the pleasure of letting you chose our first date. I'll pay for anything you want to do but i want to get to know you and i want to see just how interesting of a person you are or if you are like most girls your age who are boring.


this does a few things

1. puts the onus on her to come up with an idea and you can't screw up the first date
2. shows you have confidence in yourself
3. i assure you it will throw her for a loop women don't get approached like that very often


if she really is a 7 or 8 into you, she will come up with something,s he's not gonna pass up a chance to let a guy she is into learn more about her.


bam. game time
Thanks
 
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