timmylivingalie
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I still aint asked her out. I avoided her last nite and talked with one of her peers. I really cant think of anywhere good to take her.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Because it's the easiest path and you admitted as much.Pair A Dice said:And what's up with all of these guys trying to force feed girls alcohol so their inhibitions will be lower? Use your game to the point where alcohol isn't needed. Sure, it helps, but it's a dependent variable if you make it one.
Probaly 7 or 8backbreaker said:I think i might have a solution for you, however it will only work if you are sure she is into you.
on a scale of 1 to 10 with 1 being little and 10 being very much so, how much into you do you think she is.
then this is a pretty easy play that will work.timmylivingalie said:Probaly 7 or 8
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
then this is a pretty easy play that will work.timmylivingalie said:Probaly 7 or 8
Thanksbackbreaker said:then this is a pretty easy play that will work.
make her make the call. approach her, and tell her look... i know you've been looking at me and i admit you've caught my eye so i am going to give you the pleasure of letting you chose our first date. I'll pay for anything you want to do but i want to get to know you and i want to see just how interesting of a person you are or if you are like most girls your age who are boring.
this does a few things
1. puts the onus on her to come up with an idea and you can't screw up the first date
2. shows you have confidence in yourself
3. i assure you it will throw her for a loop women don't get approached like that very often
if she really is a 7 or 8 into you, she will come up with something,s he's not gonna pass up a chance to let a guy she is into learn more about her.
bam. game time